I have made myself available to the Universe to share myself and allowing myself to be open to receiving love. I have recently shed a bad relationship and surprisingly came out swinging and fully aware that I deserve better. I search and show an interest in people and either get the run around, rejection or meet people who aren't interested in trying something more than play time. What is the Sammi to do? I have found new parts of myself that I want to try them out, share and give. But alas... it seems the Universe is telling me no.

Well it seems that there are some pretty selfish people out there and more of less dishonest about what is going on with them. I am open and honest and expect the same. I won't waste time if there is something going on. What happened to being considerate and communicative?

I am sure some people mean well but GAH! What is with the stupid one liners? What happened to making a comment about my profile or asking me to expand why I am here. Or maybe ask what vanilla things I enjoy. I am so sick of "hi" or "whats up" or "wanna play".

Seems since I revised my profile the number of nut jobs on here have left me alone. I suppose that is a good thing and I should be grateful. But I wonder... is there anyone out there interested in talking?

so I updated my profile as I feel changes in my life are needed and changed my pic. I hope that this change is good and I am not too harshly judged for being who I am.

perhaps I am a bit old fashioned but when does  'tell me your fantasies' or 'nice ass' become a good opener for an email? I prefer something like 'hi, my name is ___. How are you?' and since when is it okay to skip reading someone profile and then be surprised when you find out they live with their partner and are poly when its stated in their profile? ugh... people these days.

I love how the men on here just expect me to roll over and tell them everything they want to hear and they get pissy when I don't. Or the rude ones that call me a racist or rude when I respond(or don't respond) negatively to unsolicited demanding emails. Since when did being a slave mean I was your slave? *sigh*