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Dom/Switch Couple, 44/44,  San Leandro, California
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Helix

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2014 Update: Our young prince is a little older, and we absolutely have loved the experience, and we are S-L-O-W-L-Y returning to more adult activities and nurturing our more carnal needs Looking for compatible individuals who we can comfortably date, and enjoy their company on a variety of levels with the hope of a deepening relationship filled with bondage, kink, sex and insane amounts of shared and giggling mayhem... but you gotta start somewhere...
We're seeking a relationship dynamic with someone who can understand our time restraints, knowing full well that being part of our family means you get all of us, not just the parts on a Friday night. With that said, individuals who have children like we do, or even a busy single parent, are more than welcome - in fact that likely puts you to the front of the line. That's why we have babysitters...

We now return you to the regularly scheduled introduction:

Professional, Dominant Male married to an incredibly beautiful and brilliant slave who likes topping boys and girls.

Me: A predilection for hedonism with a Capital "H". Sensually Sadistic by nature, I like to believe that I'm a gentleman at the core. I have worked very hard for several years as a business owner in an industry I love that fortunately allows us the flexibility and means to enjoy the moments in life that we crave.

Her: She is truly my other half and partner in crime, and although incredibly sexy and sexually a dynamo, I'm finding myself indulging her desires to top men and women, which she's already grown to be quite adept at.

So what is it we crave? A constant passion of ours (besides the complete mutual adoration of women) revolves around wine and decadent food. Born and raised in San Francisco and educated in Manhattan, I was taught early on that dining well is a full contact sport and have passed these cravings along to my girl.

These passions extend to traveling with good friends and touring restaurants and wineries both local and abroad. Or more recently, entertaining in our new home that we've been painstakingly renovating for the past half year.

A classic day for us is exposing someone to the decadent parts of life that we sometimes don't take the time to savor.

I've set aside the old line I had of "I don't cook, but I make one hell of a reservation".

We still do give great reservation, but I've also found my happy place back in the kitchen and we've enjoyed returning to entertaining and hosting dinner parties with our very unique slant.

We both have eclectic taste in music, art, and travel but in my case when it comes to professional sports - you get bonus points for knowing the current standing of the Giants in the NL West, and being able to hum the theme to Sportscenter at a moment's notice. She's a fan by proxy but a great companion and enthusiastic in her own methods.

Jointly, we don't limit ourselves to a singular definition of our interests in BDSM. We've been involved publicly and privately for well over the space of a decade, with a 5 year period highly visible travelling not only to BDSM related events but also teaching and performing demonstrations. Although that part of our life was fulfilling and exciting, we've moved on to new chapters. Fortunately because of this, our interests and expertise runs across a lot of the traditional areas of kink as well as some harder edged and more taboo practices. With that said, we pride ourselves in being able to ramp up or down our intensity based upon the experience levels and desires of our partners.

Who do we find to be good matches for us?

If you are looking for "The O/ones" or "A True Dominate" (intentional misspelling here)or some of the more fantasy based definitions of M/s and escapist desires of BDSM then you are probably looking for someone else.

If the words "family", "sanctuary", or "a place to belong" mean anything to you, then maybe we have something to talk about.

Our M/s dynamics and family structure is a day in / day out working approach to balancing not only our dynamics and who we are to one another, but also maintaining our success and responsibilities in the mainstream.

Yes... mastery, slavery, kink, and nekkid good times are all great perks - but it doesn't absolve us of our primary responsibilities as parents and career professionals.

We operate by the simple tenet of "we do the things today that others won't, in order to do the things tomorrow others can't"

If that doesn't make sense to you, we're *definitely* the wrong people for you. We love our "real lives" and feel no need to escape from the real world, ours is pretty cool as a matter of fact.


We are obviously not a traditional monogamous relationship. Although we appreciate and respect someone's choice to seek monogamy, we've learned enough through the years that it is not a relationship style that ultimately works is our choice.


My wife and I are confidants, compatriots, best pals, and partners in crime and thoroughly in love. We are looking for dynamics that blends the strength of what we have together , shared with the gifts that disparate personalites bring to the mix. to what degree and committment that someone gets involved with us, is purely a matter of alchemy.

We measure the length of our relationships with our partners in years, not months. We did our sport fucking phase already, we don't think of love as a four letter word, nor intimacy as something to hold at arm's length.

Initially, we are seeking easy-going friendships with the possibility of rough-going sexual adventurism primarily with females and if the energy is right, select couples. That could mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people. We simply view it as one thing: a beginning.

It could be manifested as anything from a outrageous day spent plumbing the depths of the City, to an intense evening in our nicely appointed home, or perhaps those plus everything in between.

Please be advised that we are interested in real-time ONLY.

We don't need the accessories (although we have a pretty extensive collection of gear and the skill to use it) to prove that we're "hardcore" about BDSM. We no longer need an audience to validate what we mean to one another.

The Dominant role in both my professional and personal relationships represents an integral part of who I am, and not a fantasy to be lived out in email or on the phone.

We don't venture into the public BDSM community often, but there is always the chance that we might be found making an appearance. Because of this you must not be afraid of the possibility of being seen publicly at BDSM-related events and the like.

We would prefer that you live in the SF Bay Area +/- an hour from our location as any greater distance makes it difficult in our opinion to maintain anything other than an occasional friendship.

We would consider people who are less geographically desirable, if there was a significant belief that this person met our current and future needs, with an understanding that close proximity would eventually have to occur if the relationship progressed.

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 Helix

 Dom/Switch

 San Leandro 

 California

 07/25/04

 

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 5' 6"

 180 lbs

 44

 Latinx

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 5' 2"

 130 lbs

 44

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