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Hel

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Retreat2Eden
undrheel
Host of upcoming July 4th Domme gathering - location to be announced. Contact me for details.

I take my name from the Norse goddess of the underworld... if you are familiar with Nordic mythology, you will realize she is an appropriate and fitting archetype for one such as myself. I am of Nordic descent but I moved to the States several years ago. I still travel to Europe frequently on business and also for pleasure. I am seeking submissive men and women, as well as Dom/sub couples - all are welcome to email me but, let me be clear that I will tolerate no disrespect or game playing. I am not posting any additional pictures as I am professional and occasionally in the public eye, but I will provide on a case by case basis, and generally only after a face to face meeting.

On a more personal note, I love this lifestyle and have been blessed with the opportunity to grow and become that which I was meant to be. I am naturally dominant and bisexual, and I do not switch. So, to all those who are going to dominate me online - don't waste your time or mine.

About me, I am 37 years old, 5-10 with blonde hair, brown eyes, and I work out daily. I believe a strong body complements a strong mind. I am professional, in a notably public profession, and I require absolute discretion in all aspects of our relationship. I prefer submissives who are capable of presenting themselves well enough that I can bring them into my public life. I have a notable preference for female submissives, if only because they arouse fewer speculations as a public companion in social situations. I have been in the lifestyle for almost 10 years, and in those 10 years I have learned a great deal about what does, and doesn't work - and what I will and will not accept.

I am in no hurry, I am quite selective, and I will take whatever time or action that I think is appropriate with each that kneels before me. I will push your limits until I am satisfied you have submitted fully.

I will shape and mold you into that which I desire. My expectations and standards are high, and I will not tolerate disobedience, disrespect, or dishonesty.

That being made clear... let the games begin!

Hel

ps - I am for real, which means you should be too, and part of being "for real" means you are close enough to meet and, if desired, play in person.

Do not think that you are going to Dom or sex me via email or chat because it will not happen!

If you choose to contact me, provide a picture in the first email. Otherwise, I will not respond. I am back in DC after being away for an extended period, the above still applies.
5/16/2010 7:20:49 AM
Family crisis. I have not been online recently. I will return when I am able. Hel.
5/6/2010 8:56:29 PM
Death in the family. I may be traveling - more details to follow... Hel.
5/1/2010 9:13:48 PM
There is a male Dominant, he knows who he is - who has caught my attention. He embodies the traits in men that I most admire...  and for him to worship at my feet has meaning. However, the distance is a challenge (distance always is) that will need be overcome. The greater challenge is to bend him to my will - to see him kneel before me obediently. We shall see how this progresses.
4/29/2010 9:52:57 AM

teddyboyDC - this one is a typical pathetic twit.

he emails me, gets smart - and then he informs me that he has a Domme.

Then why is the twit writing to me?

And, given his insolent and juvenile attitude, I'd like to know if his Domme thinks this is acceptable behavior.

He disrespects me, and his Domme - and this indicates clearly he belongs in cyberspace rather than the real world.
 
teddyboydc is a waste of time.

4/29/2010 9:29:27 AM
I am catching up on email.

I am amazed at how many people fail to follow this very simple instruction:

Picture is required with initial email, and no - you are not an exception! 

I like to see the object of my attention, so include a pic or I will not respond.

Hel.
4/29/2010 9:24:12 AM
I am back in the DC area. Long trip, good to be home. I will be catching up on unfinished business (you know who you are!) this weekend. Hel.
4/25/2010 9:56:37 AM
I shall be back in DC on Tuesday night. Long trip, slight detour - but all in all it will be good to be back. It seems I have some catching up to do! Thank you to all who were concerned for me. Hel.
4/20/2010 8:43:10 PM
The volcanic ash cloud over Europe is real - trust me, I know personally. I am extending my trip (not much choice, unless I want to sail back to the States) for another week. There are worse things than being stuck where I am though, after all, it is lovely here this time of year!
4/16/2010 2:39:07 PM
If you write to me, provide a picture in the first email or I will not respond. That is to show me that you are serious and able to follow simple instructions.

4/4/2010 3:48:00 PM
This past weekend was a fantastic success!

I want to express my appreciation to my fellow Dom & Dommes for your time, companionship, and energies.

Next gathering will be at a private lakehouse in West Virginia. I will forward details as the time nears. For now, plan on 4th of July weekend (at the latest) and possibly as early as the end of April!

I will be travelling for the month of May on business.

Hel.

6/11/2009 7:23:34 AM
I will be hosting another Domme gathering July 4th weekend at My townhome in Germantown.  My Domme friends that attended last time are of course welcome!  You were all such great guests!  If you are a Domme and interested in meeting some of the most provocative Domme's in the DC area contact me.  I will of course have a butler and sissy maid potentially :)
9/4/2008 6:21:52 PM
I am traveling on business, and return Friday night. I have eliminated one potential male submissive - for reasons I choose not to disclose. Simply put: be who you say you are, and do not lie to me.
8/31/2008 5:19:59 PM
In the last few days, I have identified 3 potential submissives for further training. However, all are male and I have an equal appetite for females. So, I remain underfed.
8/31/2008 5:19:59 PM
In the last few days, I have identified 3 potential submissives for further training. However, all are male and I have an equal appetite for females. So, I remain underfed.
8/29/2008 6:39:50 PM
To any who are hosting parties or other social functions in the Frederick area - I would be very interested in attending, provided it is suitably discrete. I can and will contribute as is appropriate....

Hel.
8/29/2008 6:20:04 PM
To those of you in Isreal, Africa, Japan - or any other country that is thousands of miles away from Maryland - note: I like to play in the real world. I prefer reality to fantasy.

So, if you are not local or can well afford to travel, please find another Mistress to approach.
8/29/2008 6:18:05 PM

Thought for the day

If you are a "dominant" male and you mistakenly believe you are going to bring out my submissive side through some devastatingly clever email traffic.... don't waste your time. Or especially mine.

It never ceases to amaze me that these wannabes read my profile, come to the inescapable conclusion I clearly have repressed submissive tendencies, and with a few emails full of CAPS and profanity, I will become their obedient sex toy.

Hopefully one day soon there will be a medication to bring them back to reality.

8/29/2008 6:03:09 PM
I am state-side once again - this time, until after the new year! To all who stayed in touch - thank you for your devotion and attention. It will be remembered and rewarded.  I have much catching up to do, and I am looking forward to re-establishing myself as a Mistress here in Maryland. Understand that I will be quite busy for the next few weeks, and I will be on CM as time permits. To any who wish to contact me, I will not continue extended conversations without pics or voice verification, and meeting in person, as I prefer to play in the real world - not on the internet.
5/1/2008 8:22:29 PM
Hello All,

I have been away on business but I am back in the States for a few months. It was a long trip, and it is good to be back! I look forward to having some time to relax and enjoy life for a while... let the games begin! : )

Hel