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Hopefully this profile explains a little about me and what I am looking for. One thing I want to stress is that I do not live this lifestyle 24/7. I look to this world as a release and for exploration and not something I want to mix with my day to day life. I work 60+ hours ever week. I don't mind; I enjoy what I do and my goal is to retire early. I am a very loyal and consistent person. I'm a private and direct person. I prefer to chat and make sure our interests and expectations align. I am not looking for online friends or pen pals. We should be able to figure out quickly if we will click personality wise. I do not post pictures on sites like this or share them via email or text. I have no idea who is behind online profiles nor will I blindly trust someone to send pictures online. If this bothers you that much, we will likely never get along. I have been told I'm attractive. You can be the judge of that if we meet.
If our interests align, we can meet for coffee in public wherever you choose. This to low risk for you and me. If there is no mutual attraction in person, we walk away like adults. This is how I prefer to do things. If it doesn't work for you, I understand and wish you the best. There are people who are truly busy and people who are "busy" and yet never accomplish anything in life. I avoid drawn-out conversations with "busy", incompetent, unmotivated and flaky people.
I drink coffee for the effect, not the flavor, and am fine with drinking it black. I am intrigued by psychology, specifically what makes someone tick and what they are into from a kink perspective. I'm an alpha male in my regular day to day life and a switch sexually. I can be very dominant or submissive but I don't switch roles with the same person. If you are a domme, I am looking for someone who knows what this means versus someone who is looking to learn how to be a domme with me. If I am being submissive, I don't want to think and want to give up complete control to someone I can trust. As a dominant, I am looking for submissive or sub-curious women who are looking to explore and give up complete control. Let me know if you are bisexual or bi-curious. However, this is not a requirement for me. If I am being dominant, I want to understand you as a person and learn what you are curious about and what you have tried (if anything). I want you to feel comfortable to be able to explore your interests and mine. I have a wide range of toys and restraints for either a domme or submissive.
bonafealicia
 
 Age: 31
 Somewhere here, California