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wow! whackos comin out of the woodwork! wth happened to this site?! |
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Good things come to those who wait : )
Karma is a bitch and you're about to meet her. |
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Lady Gaga: 'Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker'... |
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~one door closes, another one opens~
Do I dare? |
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Being able to do something I truly love brings me so much satisfaction, gratification, and joy. Knowing and hearing that I am amazing at it, makes me beam with pride.
Warm glow today and Whewwww!
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It's sad.....Liars who get so caught up in their lies and fake worlds that they begin to think its truth...un-fucking believeable. Do I wear a mark that says "sucker" across my forehead or something??!!! Sorry, but the truth eventually comes to light...the warning signs are usually there...we have to be more aware and see those signs.
I never give up hope...I won't let one person's selfishness take that away from me. To quote something said to me earlier today " it's not YOU who is the liar...or fake...or the one doing wrong even, it's THAT person doing those things TO you, they are the one who should hold the shame in it, NOT you."
I appreciated that...and found it consoling. : ) |
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I think so many here just get off on playing others....its just really sad. Can't trust anyone, because no one is true. |
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hesitantly
I kneel
hands out
overflowing plate
I shake
you
over me
full hands
I wait
you add
I take |
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It seems there is much confusion about what I am in search of here.
Certainly, if you are old, young, gay, straight, bi, Dom, or Domme, sub or slave...a couple or part of a couple, married, single, etc...I am always interested in FRIENDS : )
I truly search for the one MAN who everything just "clicks" with. I'm in no hurry. These things take time.
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Happy Mother's Day to all you mothers..and to the fathers I know who are also in that role. I hope you feel loved, cherished, and adored.
: ) |
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How do people make long distance relationships work? To me its seems as if it would be the most frustrating thing.
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I WILL NOT send my photos thru mail or collar me, so do not ask!
I am willing, after time to go on Skype to cam verify. I don't or won't do cam shows. I want real...tangible. |
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~love waking to the sun shining~
Great to have hope : )
It's always worth fighting for, no matter what the outcome might be.
Happy Friday! |
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Hmmmm....how very true is this? Although...here in this forum, it could definitely be twisted to have a totally different meaning ; ) lol
Ha!
In the end, everyone will hurt you...its up to you to decide who is worth the pain.
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Not sure what to think of this one...was just brought to my attention that the wording from my profile has now been taken and posted on a newly created profile...geeeezz...
Sleepingmom69
Not my stolen pics on it though...so I suppose I should be
grateful. |
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Imitation is the highest form of flattery. |
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Even the smallest lies or "half truths" can damage something new. Trust is shattered. |
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Just sayin...I think the photos people post on their profiles of just a hand holding a whip or switch are just stupid. Just as stupid as the pics where all the toys are laid out on the bed. Unless it is done in an artistic or creative way...its just DUMB! |
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Was pretty much told yesterday by someone I met here that CM is considered a "BDSM hook-up site"....
I've never viewed it as such and think there are many many here who feel the same...that they are here because THIS is a part of them...their lives...that nothing else is ever as satisfying or gratifying |
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If you can't handle rejection...don't even bother approaching someone who is obviously out of your league. |
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"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on".
~Robert Frost~ |
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I find a need, to yet again, repeat myself...if you are married or attached(and your spouse or partner has no idea you are here)...the reasons or circumstances make no difference to me...in my book...YOU are a CHEAT and a LIAR. DO NOT CONTACT ME. You are of no interest to me. Not even as a friend.
I feel VERY strongly that if you are doing something behind someone's back that would hurt them...you are in the wrong. Cheating is a purely selfish act. I know all too well what cheating does to a person. And it HURTS. |
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Excited to welcome spring this week : )
The winter has been painless. On many levels..
Grateful for my friends : ) Thank you for the pick-me ups, jokes and smiles. Be well! |
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Thanks for all the great messages : )....
I am now mostly in nyc/nnj and visit Chicago about once a month. Left behind many friends.
Vegas bound this weekend....looking forward to catching up with friends! |
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It's not about what he does "for" me....or what I do "for" him...its about what we strive to be for each other. Mutually beneficial...
Anyways....blows my mind how few actually "get" that.....
Loving my new world....getting settled.....busy busy....still around; just not super active here right now : ) |
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Psycho stalker!!! I appease myself knowing that karma is a bitch and that some day, he will get his!!! Evil to the pit of his soul...gutless and spineless. Sad, pathetic little man.
I am happy and well. Thankful for my true friends : ) |
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Recently relocated....no longer in Chicago....
Most likely I will not tell you my exact location, but will give general info w/ no issues.
Happy Hump Day!!! |
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Getting settled....
enjoying spring...FINALLY!!!
Things are great!! |
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enjoying all of life's little mysteries and surprises.....
flittering and fluttering.....
wishing for a giant butterfly net in which to capture him : ) |
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if you are a Dom here searching for a new sub...why would you have pics posted of ex or old subs?? I almost find it disgusting to view a profile and see that....just sayin
Anyone else agree? |
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~sadly...more wasted time....another "dead end"~
whatever happened to not making promises you can't keep??
honesty...does ANYONE understand the concept anymore? Why do I end up being the bad person when I tell someone that they just aren't what I want for myself??? Isn't it MY choice??? |
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UGH!!! I guess I have to say it again...not here or interested in couples, poly or married men. I want someone AVAILABLE and OPEN to long term. If for some reason you aren't available...don't bother!! Its crap to "chat" w/ someone for an extended length of time for them to turn around and tell you they are married. I'm not going to be so taken with you that I will change my mind!! GRRRR!!! I also want someone who doesn't feel he has to "hide" me from others in his life. I want to MATTER...I want to MEAN something!! if you are incapable...DON'T BOTHER!!! |
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~smiling~
Happy Saturday!
I find that it makes my heart happy when someone says, "I'm sorry" and truly means it. A man who can say it because he's listened to you, and has tried to understand why he has hurt or upset you. A very rare quality...and so lovely. : ) |
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Been an interesting week to say the least....Swirling, twirling week....much turmoil and alot of laughs. I appreciate those who send me laughter and put a smile on my face. Seeing alot of potential and am happy that there are those who are taking notice of the things I write. I write from the heart and it means something when it's noticed. Love the possibility being presented to me. Happy hunting all... : ) |
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YES!!! thanks to those of you who report these fake profiles...one down!! This is all so ridiculous! I apologize to anyone who has been offended by the things he's posted. I don't understand that type of vindictive, petty behavior, there is really no sense in it.
I won't sit here and defend myself, or respond to the "hate" mail I get. I KNOW who and what I am...wanna know? ...find out for yourself, but don't JUDGE me because of what is written on those profiles. |
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and again ANOTHER!! heeledgoddes71......WOW!! this one's just BRUTAL...sooo showing his true colors...please report this profile. I've sent in verification photos to CM...am hoping this profile will be removed soon. WTF!! |
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Thanks for all the great messages!! I know I get closer every day that I am here to finding my ONE....I am happy to see so much potential!! And to those of you who single yourself out to me with your intelligent, informative, funny, quirky messages...YOU are appreciated!!!! THANK YOU for putting forth the effort.
**Would also like to say, I am not interested in couples. I really am not sure how many times I talk about my ONE here...but well...come on people!!! Nor does a female have the ability to complete me.
Also to all you young, hard bodied, hotties....mmmmm...and YUMMMMM!!! but lets be realistic here...I really have no LT interest in screwing someone who is THAT much younger than me : ) No offense...if you are under 21...or even close to that in age...no thanks!
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It's never my intention to be irrational. But I am a woman and lead by my emotions. I have always been very open about the fact that I am passionate. I believe that I say often, that in the moment I am not always rational...but give me time and I am better able to be rational and discuss things. Other's don't always hear when that is said...its frustrating. I put forth the effort to allow others to know me...and find it frustrating when they say they understand and then really don't. If I didn't care, I could give two sh*ts! |
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To those who send "cock shots" as an introduction...your cock is the very last thing I am concerned about in the beginning stages of correspondence. Quite honestly...I'm not impressed! And find it to be rude and disgusting! So please refrain from sending them until it is requested. |
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Life goes on! It's been fun & amazing! Thank god reality always comes along to slap me in the face n tell me to wake the f*ck up! Thanks for the smiles and the lovely daydreams : ) |
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so, once again there is an imposter...be aware of Heeledgoddess711....this is not me! it's my ex husband who after 2-1/2 years, still can't let go! Guess that goes to show just how amazing I am. LOL! So...my search continues.... |
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I'm thinking...things are definitely looking better!!! Thanks for the well wishes! and screw that elevator music crap!!! : ) ~kisses~ |
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I'm feeling like I need to put this out there...a couple things about who I search for...
Please be willing to show photos.... Attractiveness is important. If I'm not attracted to you...then the chemistry would not be there. I want someone who is in the same relative age group as I am. I will NOT date or be interested in someone who is married, attached, poly or anything of the sort. I am looking for ONE. I am not into group sex, poly, being on loan, swinging, being a part of a "stable", etc. ~ Nor will I ever be. ~
I will never accept anything less than being EVERYTHING to the one I end up with.
I'm here searching for real...long term...depth. |
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I wish spring would hurry....I wish CM weren't so full of fakes. I wish I could find an attractive, sexy, dom male who is real and not some game player....in the meantime....here I sit, subject to all of this CM CRAP! Sad, but true |
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Feeling sad today...wish I didn't..... |
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Hmmm...seems there is an issue w/ men having a problem confirming who they are. Its quite simple to "pop" on your webcam for 30 seconds. I want to see that the photos match who you are on cam. Don't EVEN ask for my phone number. Because you won't get it until I am positive of who you are. Sooo sick of all the game players and "subs" looking for jack off material!!!! Sick of having my time wasted! |
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if anyone sees other profiles on here w/ a similar name or my photos....please report it and let me know...thank you
~smiles~ |
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