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Hello. Welcome to my virtual home away from home :).
The site that provides information on the type of relationship that works for me is "taken in hand."
Here is hoping there is a good man out there who is my counterpart in sharing this interest :).
I am primarily submissive, and my BDSM interests lean toward man as head of household, role play, loving but firm lecturing, age play, CP, and a committed D/s relationship with an eye toward eventual marriage. Our relationship will have an undercurrent of eroticism because our roles are simply part of who we are.
I am seeking a 5'10"+, cleanshaven, intelligent, witty and cultured, non-smoking man (aged 33-45) who has been life-long dominant aware. I manage my life well, so I am not seeking 24/7 in this regard. The best way to describe my need might be to say that I need consistent limited control rather than constant control (simple but consistent rules). I am headstrong and confident. If this is not your idea of the right girl, and you are unable to sustain a PE relationship with a powerful woman, please move on.
Our relationship will seem mostly normal to outsiders, but in private our roles will be defined. I believe that D/s sustains romance.
Behavioural restrictions arouse me. I believe that sex should be primal and rough most of the time, but lovemaking sometimes sweet and tender. I love to read, see local music, dance, travel, and go to pubs with friends. I enjoy playing hostess and entertaining friends. Having an inviting home where stimulating conversation abounds is sacred to me. I love children and am open to having them or to helping you raise yours. I have settled for vanilla once, and extreme once, so I know that my place resides somewhere between the two. I am openly communicative, and need for you to be as well.
Ideally, you would be compassionate, like animals, have a consistant life philosophy, and have lasting friendships that have been built over the years. You believe that SM play without a mental bond is boring. You are familiar with conflict resolution techniques. You don't believe in abandonment, any sort. Withdrawal, silent treatment, etc. during conflict will end further involvement between us.
With me you will feel Home knowing that I have your back. The trust and loyalty we share will provide us with a calm and secure home.
I am in this for the long term, so I will not be interested in early sex or play. If that is what you seek, you will grow bored with me quickly. Please do not waste our time. If you are interested in getting to know a real person who can be complicated, challenging, fun, enthusiastic and adventurous, then I would love to hear from you.
If you cap your pronouns, call yourself Lord, Master, or Sir something, or use text speak, we will not be compatible. This stuff is just one aspect of the relationship and not meant to be taken too seriously. It's meant to be fun!
I can only reply to those profiles which approximate the type of match which is best for both of us. If I do not reply to your letter, this means that it was not a good match, and I wish you well on your search for the right girl. I receive far too much mail to reply to it all. I do have a life that requires my attention and is of more import than an e-mail.
I wear a UK dress size 16 (US 14) so those looking for thin girls will not be compatible.
UK only please. Pics only please. Short note=no reply (ie "want to chat?" or "U R hot" - just doesn't cut it in the world of trying to form a new relationship). Not reading my profile=no reply. If there is nothing in my profile that caught your interest enough to comment on, then what's the point of further contact?
If you have read this far, please put "Emily Dickinson" somewhere in your note to me.
Thank you for reading my profile :).
"The whole world is a cage when you are trapped in it alone."
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