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It would seem that the link on the site that lets you read mail is broken (and might have been for a while).
But if you select the mobile option and then go to your inbox you can get to your mail that way.
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Spring hasn't quite sprung yet.
But now the days are getting longer I might take some time off as there are better things to do than be online every day.
As much as I'd like to find a "plaything" I'm not _that_ desperate.
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A sub who, in her profile, says: "I'm not looking to converse with fantasists..."
But who decided to string me along for whatever reason.
And has "previous" for this.
Has updated her profile to say: "Fingers still scorched by another lying cheating b*stard".
I shouldn't really laugh at another person's misfortune.
But seeing a player get played did raise an ironic smile.
Obviously her grasp of who's a realist and who's a fantasist is a little lacking.
Heigh-ho.
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CS's options on the drop-down list for instant responses to mails really should include:
"Reported as spam and blocked ;)"
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Another month passes, another flake.
Who probably never had any intention of meeting but strung me along to fulfil her fantasies.
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I shouldn't be surprised because the CM scale of weirdness is beyond comprehension.
But I've just tried to mail someone who I've never contacted before. But I'd noticed their profile and thought it might be interesting.
And what happened? They've blocked me already.
So you get blocked for looking at somebody else's profile? Or not mailing them quickly enough after they'd noticed you looking at their profile (hey, but I do have a real-world life to live)? Or... ???
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It had been apparent for some weeks that the person I'd been talking to was losing interest (or had lost interest, or was more interested in somebody else or...)
Which is fine. But why didn't she have the honesty* to say so.
And then why did she finally arrange to meet in person?
The meeting lasted all of 10 minutes. And all she had to say for herself was: "You're not my type. I'm leaving".
That didn't come as any huge surprise. But why did she waste her time and mine for something that obviously wasn't going anywhere?
Suggestion on the proverbial postcard please.
* Something that seems rather lacking around here |
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I know this http://bit.ly/asBw6D was written about another site in another country.
But if you're even faintly curious about why sites like CM are deeply flawed then you should have a read.
Though, if you're for real, I doubt it will tell you much that you don't know anyway.
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I try not to waste too much of my time on here (though there are a lot of people who want to waste your time)
So, being someone who is widely read, I thought you might enjoy this:
http://failblog.org/2010/04/29/shopping-list-fail-or-win/ |
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Lightweights
(and before too many people start jumping up and down... no, I'm not being size-ist)
Want another good way of spotting 419 or other scammers?
I've recently looked at two "subs". One claimed they weighed 50lb and the other was a mere 12lb.
Doh?
Wonders why some people are so desperate that they can't spot the obvious signs (and there are usually loads of them) that a profile is fake?
But, then again, a lot of "doms" tend not to think with their brain.
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Call me a cynic if you want...
(it's OK, I won't take offence, because I do view this site with a healthy degree of cynicism)
... but there do seem to be an awful lot of slaves whose Masters have died recently (and suddenly?)
I hope it's not the wrong time of the year.
Or there's not another strain of man-flu spreading like wildfire.
I'd rather not catch a bad case of "Dead-Dom-itis" if you don't mind.
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If you are contacted by, or are tempted to have any contact with, [insert user ID of choice, they have lots of them] someone claiming to be:
looking to discuss the ins and outs of the fetish industry with an
experienced male dominant.
who is supposedly:
representing a model / their sister / a friend who would make a great bondage model if only they knew or might go down that path.
Or some such similar story. Yadda yadda yadda.
Then please don't encourage a serial troll.
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Is faintly amused by the increasing number of escorts who seem to be flooding here recently.
If "business" is really that bad then they should really understand that it's a buyer's market at the moment. Rather than thinking this is another market they can tap into.
Otherwise they wouldn't be hustling for work here would they?
Asking £1K for a session is stupid.
Unless, of course, someone has convinced there's money to be made out of desperate "doms". Or some men on here are daft enough to pay it?
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Festive felicitations
I'm probably not going to be around a lot over the next few days, though I might pop in briefly if I get any interesting mails.
So I'd like to wish everyone* a happy holiday.
(* apart from the trolls of course, bah humbug to them)
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Wonders if the "fresh meat" syndrome applies to male Doms as well?
The number of 419 type mails I've received recently has declined markedly. Not that I'm complaining or want to receive any more.
But since they never read your profile it can't be that they are bright enough to realise there's no point. Though we can live in hope I suppose.
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I've just been mailed by someone (at least they had the courtesy to reply) to say they weren't interested. Which is fair enough.
They said that my picture was a turn-off for them. Anyone got any useful insights on this, given that I cannot, for work reasons, have a facial pic on here.
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Thought for the day (taken from a mail I wrote recently which never got a reply - why am I not surprised?):
It's not what I say that makes me dominant.
Something that a lot of the fantasists on here would do well to learn rather than thinking that they can tell someone to kneel and accept an online collar.
It's what I do that makes me dominant.
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The latest offering from the bit-bucket:
"I am slave looking to be owned by a domme."
So wrong. On so many counts.
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I've just been spammed by a model agency who want to use my picture and claim that I could even make money from it.
Sighs... is there something about Sundays that encourages the trolls to be extra stupid?
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Why do many so many so-called subs or slaves write "I am honest and God fearing" in their profile.
Surely they must know by now that's a fairly obvious red flag raised over how genuine they are.
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