I'm new to this site. I am interested in making friends in the lifestyle. I'd like to take it a bit slow as I've just realized this is the place I need to be. I also have other interests other than the choices this site offers. For instance cupping, collaring and the ceremonies that go with it, various forms of pain. Naturally I don't only want the physical but this type of friendship or relationship as a whole. All in time of course. I have many other interests as well. Rollerblading, kayaking, travel to name a few. Those are the more out there type of interests I have. I also have days I am a homebody and I do entertain from time to time. I'm pretty much down to earth and enjoy life. My work has me out in the public so I am mostly looking to keep to this site as a means of communicating. I hope to be in chat rooms from time to time or to post a thing or two. I am looking for friends here who have some of the same interests, they don't have to match exactly. Some diversity is good. People with intelligence please feel free to write me. I'd love to hear of your experiences and maybe you can offer some guidance.