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As Whitman put it, "I contain multitudes."
The bottom line (pun intended), to borrow a term from Dan Savage, is that I'm GGG: "good, giving and game."
Most of my life, I've been top, perhaps because I'm 6'2", 225 and fit and athletic, and strong and successful in my vanilla life. Well educated at good schools and gainfully employed in a good career, it seems as though women always just assumed I was top.
But taking just one approach -- to anything, not just kink -- doesn't interest me at all and I wound up bottom in an FLR and found that very fulfilling. That touched parts of my psyche, my soul, that went way back into my past, back to when the hormones first started running in my body as an early teen. So much so that now I find myself falling on the /s side of the D/s continuum...but as with the D/ part, not for just anyone. But for the right woman...um, yeah. Or rather: yes, Miss.
In the meantime, I remain open-minded and interested in finding a woman with whom to continue exploring the D/s continuum...and my/our place(s) on it.
PS: Not interested in pros, thanks. If I'm paying you...isn't that the definition of topping from the bottom?! What I have to offer is more valuable (at least to me) than money -- and so is what you bring to the table. Or maybe I'm just naive. Anyway, point is: this isn't a game to me and it shouldn't be a job to you.
PPS: Expanding on that post-script: it's about more than just what goes on behind closed doors. If we have little chemistry in the vanilla world, we're not going to have any chemistry anywhere else. Hence my desire for an intelligent, active, fit woman. Again: perhaps I'm being naive but it is what it is.
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