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| UPDATE: I am no longer available. Hadn't checked CM in months, but a few new messages reminded me to come here and update. Best of luck to everyone in your search for the perfect match! Hayden
I love sexual and sensual surrender, eroticism, teasing, and both rough and gentle play. Verbal abuse and humiliation don't do it for me; I'm all about sensation, play, connection, anticipation, and testing limits and boundaries. Laughter is good, too; confident lovers are playful. But that moment when suddenly we're way too turned on to want to laugh any more — fuuuck, love that.
I'm in this for sex and spirit, not abuse or abject subservience. While I'm definitely not a pain slut, a certain amount of it is breathtakingly hot.
Kink has always been part of my life. My sex life has been fairly adventurous, with varying amounts of S/M, depending on my partners' interest in it. D/s is newer to me, and I'm enjoying exploring it. I've never really immersed myself in the broader kink community. My career doesn't mix well with BDSM, which is also why I only put fractions of my face anywhere (enough to show that I, in fact, HAVE a face, but not enough to out me).
Letting go of control isn't easy for me, so I crave the kind of partners who inspire me to want to submit. It helps if they're devastatingly smart, clever, fun, handsome, creative and sexy. ; ) My ideal top is in control, commanding, deliciously tormenting, and fun. His dominance comes from confidence, ease in his own skin, generosity, and self-knowledge -- a seductive combination. He likes women, especially unrepentant smartasses.
Irreverence is one of my favorite forms of foreplay. I love banter. Quick-witted intelligence makes me drool. Really good writing makes me come -- or at least masturbate furiously. I'm just a perv that way.
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