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Hello!
I'm single, male, Dominant/Top, 47, mostly het and poly. I am a research physicist, a great play partner, a stern master, and a warm friend. I am into both D/s and SM and prefer to play as close to the edge as I can with reasonable safeguards.
I've been heavily involved in the public lifestyle for the last six years, the last three here in Denver. I have been the co-head of the House of DragonFire; a leather family dedicated to alternative lifestyle education. I was honored to teach two classes at Beyond Vanilla 2004.
In general, I am interested in getting to know the people and lifestyle organizations in Colorado. I welcome all opportunities to chat about BDSM, Leather, science, philosophy, anthropology, religion, or life in general.
I learned a long time ago that everyone has something to say that can help me to learn and to grow. So, please feel free to drop me a line.
I do not actively search for relationships: I believe that they should develop naturally over time. Rather, I actively search for new friendships; people to connect with in ways that include but are not limited to lifestyle activities. If, over time, as the friendship and trust develops, only then I am open to exploring a casual play relationship. If that works for everyone, and there is desire to go to the next stage, then I am willing to discuss vanilla dates, D/s dates, and/or a sexual relationship. But, the bottom line is that I have learned better than to hurry.
I am probably atypical of the male/het/dom... for a couple of reasons. First, I am really 80% het, 80% top, 0% sub, and 100% poly. in other words, I am a very very picky bi-poly-switch. Second, in addition to topping bottoms and/or submissives, I enjoy topping Tops and Doms. As some of you have heard me talk about before, topping tops is a very different dynamic. One that took me a couple of years to get the hang of, and one I now thoroughly enjoy. So, if you are a Dominant or a Top that needs a safe place to release control, please feel free to drop me a line.
By the way, since there is so much bullshit written in these profiles, don't hesitate to ask me for references. I encourage the practice and will happily supply them.
I look forward to hearing from you!
HawkWolf
"All that is gold does not glitter.
Not all those who wander are lost."
J.R.R. Tolkien
P.S. In the interest of full disclosure, the picture is from a driver's license that is about 5 years old, so if we meet in person, be sure to expect more "character" lines ;)
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