I am a Dominant male who has been involved in this culture for many years... enough years to know better than to try to impress you with just how many or some array of abilities.
While it may appear from the Join Date of this profile I am new here, I am NOT. Since the “powers that be” here at Cme have no means to simply change a profiles user name I recently set up this one and shelved the old one. If you wish to know more about Me than what is found below I suggest you refer to my “Interests” lists, or message me with any questions you may have.
Do NOT message me unless / until you have read my entire profile including the “Interests” portion.
Some say My life is somewhat of a dichotomy because:
I am Extremely Dominant, VERY thorough, demanding, and stern as a Master while providing unwavering leadership, support, and STRICT training, yet I’m very dependable, trustworthy and understanding of My slave’s needs and desires as her friend and lover when the time for that is at hand. I rule with calmness, a soft voice, and determination. Anybody can “fly off the handle” or yell when provoked or upset. A good Master is able to control himself, and thus His slave, without these adverse reactions. I believe in honesty, and openly provide support during a “crisis”, compassion (not weakness) in times of sadness, and protection in times of adversity.
I have a deep seated sadistic streak when it comes to S&M, compounded by a devious and vivid imagination that compliments my often dirty and devilishly evil mind, a mind that comes up with a wide variety of "play", assignments, and requirements… both public and private, some indoors, some outdoors. I enjoy S&M as much as I do B&D, possibly more. In fact, there are times My S&M desires appear quite voraciously. On the other hand I have a caring, protective heart when it comes to My slave’s overall well being. There are times I simply relish being the Master in My slaves life, enjoying quality time together with no mention of D/s, however at NO time am I “soft” when it comes to My expectations and/or demands.
I enjoy showing off my slave to friends, those in the culture, and the general public at times, however I also value the private moments where she gets to "show off" herself to Me... only Me.
I can exert a vice-like crushing grip, or caress with a feather-light loving touch. The option I choose is determined by the situation and/or her obedience… or lack thereof.
When the time is right I have a great, sometimes zany and often wicked, sense of humor, yet when necessary am extremely serious. I enjoy going to biker bars and motorcycle rallies, however I also fully enjoy a nice quiet dinner or spending the day at a museum or zoo.
My demands are simple, yet demanding; few yet all encompassing. Simply put, I require total obedience and proper submissive attitudes / behavior at all times. Nothing less will be acceptable or tolerated. Obedience will be rewarded; disobedience will result in punishment "to fit the crime"... or worse, as will attempts to argue, "top from the bottom", or deceive.
I enjoy all types of play, D/s or vanilla, when the time is right, however I am not here on Cme to goof around, engage in "Cyber Sex", or waste time with those who are fakes, players, or insincere. My time is much too precious for any of those things. As the song says, "Don't play with me 'cause you're playing with fire". I strongly suggest you take this "advice" to heart if you consider corresponding or interacting with Me.
D/s and BDSM are at the core of My life while I still enjoy other things. The two things that NEVER waver are My Dominance and My requirement for total obedience. Being Dominant, and all that goes with it, is My inner self, My lifeline, My soul, so don’t get the impression that factor is ever “laid down”. It Is Not, however it is tempered with a splash of “normalcy” and a dash of self-control… usually. ;) Should we get to know each other you will see for yourself there is no lack of ability on My part to be what I claim, therefore there is no need to pursue this subject further in this format.