I don't think I have an overly complicated profile.  I like certain things, I am looking for certain people.  And yet... I haven't gotten many responses.  That's fine, I don't have a picture up so I totally get that.  What bugs me is that all but one of the responses are from men.  Now, I love men, I am in a relationship with one.  I am open to a poly relationship or a play date with a man... but not one from this site.  And even so, that is not the person I say I am searching for. 

Am I just a victim of people who send the same damn message to everyone?  Or do these men think they are smarter than me?

I recently got a man who said he wants submissive women to play with his women, and then he mentioned money.  I am not sure if he would pay me or if I am supposed to pay him, but seriously?    Fuck that.  I have no problem with sex work.  I am all for legalization.  But I am not personally in sex work, and nothing in my profile even vaguely hints I want to pay or be paid for anything.  Again, if I want a pro, I will seek out a pro.  If I want to enter sex work, it won't be here.