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Hetero Male Dominant, 55,  S.E., Michigan
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Desire a female submissive/slave who yearns to serve full-time, live-in, on a long term basis.

I think I was born with the urge to tie women up. The earliest memory I have of doing so was at the age of 4 while playing cowboys and indians I recall tying a neighbor girl, Susie L., to a tree and enjoying it more than any other part of the game. By the time I was 6 I had become a regular at tying up neighborhood girls and was getting quite inventive at it. I think I must have found a reason to tie up poor little Janet M. nearly every day that summer until her older brother told me I couldn't play with her anymore. A great loss as she had been a very willing and enthusiastic subject. I am sure she must have grown up to submit to a dominant for life. At least so long as he/she was good with rope. Fortunately there were many other neighbor girls willing to play with rope. No, there was never any sexual contact back then, it was just kid play, but I am certain that I was the only boy in the neighborhood who enjoyed tying up so many girls so often, and the only one those girls would seek out in order to be tied up. Seems like I was tying girls to trees, posts, benches, trellises, fences, just about anything I could put a girl against and get a rope around. Then I joined Cub Scouts at 8 and later Boy Scouts and my knot skills got even better. Having an old copy of "The Blue Jacket's Manual" didn't hurt either as it was a Navy instructional book that had many illustrations of how to tie intricate knots. Just before I turned 13 my family moved to a new town so throughout Junior High and High School I refrained from tying any girls up. Partly because the new area seemed less friendly toward such things and also because during the teen years it would have been misinterpreted by the girls' parents. (Or maybe not. ) But the desire to bind was still there deep within me. At about the same time of that move I found a copy of "The Story of O" which gave me wonderful new ideas but no outlet yet to put them into practice. My first real D/s experience was at the age of 18 after a chance meeting with an older (34) experienced submissive who had recently lost her Dom husband. That meeting became a relationship that lasted a year until I went into the service. Had I not already been signed up before I met her it likely would have continued for a very long time. I cherished the time with her and with every submissive who has been with me since.

I am demanding but not abusive, will challenge your limits, but won't destroy you emotionally or physically.

If you need objectification, that may be considered, tough I will need to be convinced of your absolute need in that area.

I am single (never married) with no entanglements, no children. Drug & Disease free, expect the same. Non-smoker, light social drinker.

I travel frequently and will bring qualified submissives along with me.

In the past I have never kept more than one submissive at a time and I am not seeking poly. My previous submissives/slaves have all been contracted for a set time period and were released from service when that time expired. Now I am no longer seeking for limited terms of service, but rather for a permanent slave.

If you are wondering about limits I have a basic rule that says that nothing should ever be done to or with a slave that would prevent her from serving fully either the next day or any time in the future. I am not a fan of human toilet use, so scat and golden are out. I am not interested in minors. I do not believe in cutting a slave or other blood-play. Overall I believe that a slave is to be valued and therefore well cared for even if she is used often and hard. There is a fine line between dominance and abuse and I pride myself on being able to stay on the dominant side of that line.

You should have a strong desire to be collared and kept under control, but still be willing to voice your own opinions and thoughts. A strong sense of humor is a plus. You should desire order and structure provided for you in your life. You should want someone always coaching you to be your best. Even as a submissive you should be willing to stand up on issues you firmly believe in. You should desire and expect to develop an emotional connection. You should be open to bonding heart to heart as much as you are bound physically. You should not desire to only be a pain or total degradation toy. You should be just a bit on the challenging side when it comes to training. You should have a strong sexual desire, but should also realize that 24/7 sex is not practical even within D/s. Most of all you should know for certain that an average life in suburbia is just not going to cut it for you. You should crave much more.

***No rhinoceros were harmed in the making of this profile.***











 Dominant Male



 5' 8"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female




 You wearing my collar

 Placing you on a leash

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Sensory Play


 Spanking you

 Suspension Bondage



 Blindfolding you



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Erotic Hypnosis


 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Speech Restrictions

 You wearing stockings


 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Rubber Fetish

 Curious About:

 Vacuum Stimulation





 Online RPGs

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Journal Entries:
11/9/2016 12:27:50 AM
Finally! We have a new president elect. Whether your preferred candidate won or didn't, it's time for the country to make a smooth transition of power and work toward making the USA a nation of harmony and not one of division.

11/2/2016 7:06:39 PM
For all those potential submissives out there so intent on posting BDSM personality test results lately... Don't bother wasting the space in your profile.
First, I know from experience that a moderately intelligent person can spin the results of such tests as they take them. Makes them almost worthless.

Second, because I don't really care what your scores were. All I care about is your potential. Which brings us to my next point.

Third, by the time I have you where I want, you won't be the person who took that test anymore.

2/29/2016 4:16:06 AM
Happy Leap Day!

Seems like I never get to say that very often.

5/8/2014 12:06:30 PM

I wrote this to someone today and liked it so much I decided to share it with everyone...


Selfies: An incredibly effective advertising campaign for the Apple IPhone featuring multitudes of beautiful women as unpaid phone models.  :)

8/16/2013 3:36:12 PM

So today I was driving North on the interstate in Kentucky when I was passed by a wine colored mini-SUV with a hand-lettered message painted onto the back window that read, "What if it's true?"

I read that and thought to myself, "Wow! What if it IS true? What if flying saucers are real? Man, that would change EVERYTHING!"

Like the reporter said at the end of the 50's Sci-Fi movie, 'The Thing,'...

"Keep watching the skies."


12/31/2011 7:48:26 PM

Okay, for the New Year I've finally decided it's time to come out of the closet...

Yes, all the rumors are true, I am straight AND heterosexual.

I know, I know, it seems so unnatural, but I can't help it, I was born this way.


6/16/2011 6:49:10 AM

Here's an odd thought: In the vanilla world women frequently complain that they can't find a nice guy but are usually attracted to the "Bad Boy" types and then commonly leave him when they find out that the guy really is bad and they need a restraining order against him. But in the world of BDSM, women want a bad guy and most often leave him when they find out he is not bad enough.

3/9/2011 11:14:20 AM

Having an online dominant or submissive is like owning land on the moon. Sure it's out there somewhere, but it really isn't going to do much for you.

10/13/2008 2:36:19 PM

This time of year always reminds me of the first time I showed any sign of being a dominant. I was three years old and traveling with my father and it was a time of many firsts, first airplane trip, (on a classic Constellation propliner) first time away from home for long, first time to visit my Grandparent's farm, and first Halloween out Trick or Treating. (From farm to farm by pony dressed as a cowboy no less!) Our plane made a stop en-route at Columbus, Ohio. My Dad decided to debark during the stop and walk about the terminal some. (I think to keep me from growing bored.) When we returned to the gate there was a very pretty and petite brunette ticket agent working who must have been aged somewhere between 19 and 21. She struck up a conversation with me. (Lots of young women did in those days, I was a cute redheaded kid and well behaved which made me irresistible to them - wish I still had that quality now!) She asked where I was from and where we were going and all the usual questions adults ask cute kids. After we had been talking for a bit I turned to my father and asked, "Hey Dad, can I take her home and keep her?" My father chuckled and said, "What would you do with her?" I answered that I could keep her like a pet. To which my dad reminded me that I already had a pet. (A gorgeous purebred Wiemaranner at that!) My reply was, "Yeah, but not a GIRL pet!"

Oddly enough the young woman did not seem at all opposed to the idea, maybe she was hoping it was a case of like father, like son.

4/27/2008 7:20:50 AM

If you choose to write to me and wish to get a reply, please don't send me a message like this...  

"if you want to know more about me add me at or"

This sort of message tells me nothing about you or what you may be seeking and therefor doesn't make me wish to know any more about you. On the other hand, if you say something about yourself that is interesting or charming or unique then I am very likely to at least want to get to know you better.

5/27/2007 5:40:42 AM
Okay, will all the 15 and 16 year old girls in Miss Dawkins' English class stop e-mailing me and asking me to take her as my slave and keep her in bondage. (How do these girls even get on here?) Let me make it perfectly clear. I don't care how many of you dislike her and think she deserves to be kept tied and tortured, that's just not the way things work here. You'll all just have to learn to deal with her or figure out a way to approach your school system administration if you feel she needs to be replaced. And no, I don't care how young and cute she is, I'm not going to take her away from you. The only way that would ever happen is if she were submissive and approached me herself to voluntarily be enslaved. Besides, assigning too much homework has never been a reason to enslave anyone.

2/10/2007 8:01:08 PM

At this point I have been on this site long enough to begin to notice trends and to make some generalizations. One thing that is very noticeable to me is the number of submissives who have something like, "no cut & paste text," or "no boilerplate text," or "tell me a story," or "I want long detailed personalized mail only." You get the idea, they want something written especially for them and in detail. But then most of these same submissives either don't even bother to open such mail, or they do and then block the sender immediately for the crime of having attempted to open contact. This behavior is essentially topping from the bottom and does not speak well for those who do it. If you are going to ask for personalized mail and someone takes the time to create that for you then you are obligated to at least read all that you get, no matter how great the volume. If you don't plan on reading all of your mail then don't ask for anything personalized to be written just for you. Also if there is a set of people you do not wish to receive mail from then have the grace to state that in your profile so you aren't wasting their time and then complaining later about how many of them you hear from. It's just courtesy after all. The BDSM community used to be known for that, sadly it seems to be vanishing lately.

1/16/2007 9:40:24 AM
Submissives who are considering their first "in person" meeting with a dominant they have met online should first Google the name "John E. Robinson" and read his story. Then they should think carefully and go slowly before rushing into any meeting. Get to know a dominant before meeting. Then set up a safe meeting in a public venue. Never plan on leaving a first meeting together. Always leave separately and allow yourself time to think things over clearly before finally meeting again and going anywhere together. If you would like tips for how to conduct a safe meeting feel free to contact me.

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