Honor and integrity are essential. i expect it of myself and the Dominant i serve.

i am actally 51 but so many overlook me because they set Their age scope to 49 or 50. i am a very young 51 who takes good care of herself.

i don't do online relationships. It is a fine way to find one another, but a face to face meeting is the only way to see if there is chemistry.

i am also a masochist. As a masochist, i have needs in that area that "need" to be met. Ignoring my masochistic needs is a sure way to lose me. When i submit to You, i can only maintain my submission if my needs are met. i will meet and exceed Your needs, but my minimal needs must also be met.

i am in no rush. i am taking my time.

What is a true Dominant to me?

A true Dominant is One who is training to someday be a Master. Although some will never achieve the status of Master, it is an honorable goal.

A Dominant should already have honor and integrity intact prior to seeking submission.

A Dominant is One who is taking charge of the care and guidance of another person who places their entire trust in Them. How can a submissive completely surrender to One who has little or no honor or integrity?

A Dominant should be fully aware of the consequences of accepting submission and the life that They could easily destroy if proper care is not taken.

A Dominant will place His submissive's needs before His own desires.

A Dominant seeks to give pleasure to His submissive, knowing that the choice of submission is a daily/hourly choice on the part of the submissive.

A Dominant does not take a submissive and use them up and then move on to the next sub. A Dominant chooses his submissive wisely, knowing that He must cherish and guide her.