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| I am a grandmaster I have trained other masters in the bdsm arts and am currently considering training some doms in proper etiquette to make them masters and some subs/slaves for private and other use if you have any questions or comments just ask either I or one of my slaves will answer your questions
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No, not because of your abysmal writing. Not because of your complete disregard for safety. Not because of your glorification of abuse and patterns thereof. Not even because of the way that your popularity is increasing awareness of BDSM and effectively ?outing? our entire scene. Not because you expressed your right to free speech and wrote a book that made you filthy rich.?
No, but because of this:
> "On the one hand if you are looking at it as a formulaic romance novel, it fits the formula perfectly," said Emily Prior a BDSM/Kink/Fetish teacher at Sex Coach University and director of the Los-Angeles-based Center for Positive Sexuality. "But if your audience is people who already are in a lifestyle or are being introduced to the lifestyle, it starts to give misinformation."
> "It perpetuates the ongoing idea that people who do this are broken in some way," she said. "And this is not true."
> (Taken from [http://abcnews.go.com/Health/bdsm-advocates-worry-fifty-shades-grey-sex/story?id=17369406][abcnews.com])
This is a free country, you are allowed to write absolute shit. If people want to buy it because we have become a country of illiterate morons, then more power to you. Congratulations on living the dream and catching ?the big one.? If those same morons want to do some of the things you have written about in your book and do so without doing any research OTHER than reading your trash, then a big part of me says they deserve the injuries they are likely to receive.?
I do not really have a problem with any of that, and the rapid increase in the popularity of BDSM really just increases the overall consumer community and allows for events and cons and so on to become more and more successful. It?s a good thing, I think. More of us means that those that are trying to make their living off of kink have more of a chance to do so.?
Really, what I am pissed off at you for is the fact that you have introduced a whole group of people to BDSM and you did not bother to fucking warn them.?
You did not bother to warn them about people like me.?
You see, I am a predator. I do not go seeking children to abuse. I do not prey on the weak, the mindless, the stupid. No, my prey are the intelligent, the powerful, the self-reliant. I am a bigger shark in waters full of weak and bleeding fish, and I am only after the marlins, the swordfish... other sharks.?
You did not bother to warn them about how the scene can be a dangerous place.?
How there ARE predators that prey on the weak, the defenseless. The assholes that will take advantage of weakness and cut into the newbies without any remorse. The ?real? predators.
You did not bother to warn them about the ugliness of the scene.
Tell me where the ?ooooo 50 shades!? crowd are going to understand what is going on when I take a subby bitch out into the center of the dungeon and start pissing on her. When I start kicking her and beating her and calling her a worthless fucking whore. How are they possibly going to understand that this thing I am metaphorically shitting on is actually someone I care very deeply for and that I am creating a moment of pure catharsis for her? Or that she really does get off on it when I tell her I?m going to slice up her labia and fuck her bleeding cunt?
You did not bother to warn them about the horror of the scene.
I have seen it on their faces when I take out a scalpel and cut bloody lines down my painslut?s back for no other reason than to let the blood flow. I have seen it when I kick my rope bottom while she is in the air and her screams fill the room. How do I explain to these people that what they are witnessing is an expression of love and trust, when all they know is what passes for acceptable vanilla behavior... and your insipid work of complete fiction?
You did not bother to warn them that some people thrive on giving up complete control.
You did not bother to warn them that some people need to have control wrested from them in horrific, violent ways.
You did not bother to warn them that this scene is not always about warm funny feelings in the cunt and countless multiple orgasms. Sometimes this scene is about violent acts of simulated rape. Sometimes this scene is about being broken and bloodied and left to shiver in a puddle of your own effluvium. Sometimes this scene is about being called a worthless slutcunt, being paraded around in diapers, being ridiculed and humiliated.
Sometimes the scene is about cleaning the bathroom because your Sir told you to. Sometimes it means cleaning up the stink off the floor when you have been beaten until you have bled and pissed and snotted on it.
Sometimes it means doing something you do not fucking want to do because that is simply how it is and you are going to do it because that is how your dynamic works.?
Sometimes it is about caring for your Sir after 40 years together, and he has cancer and is dying. It is getting out of the chair on arthritic knees and crawling to him and kissing his feet, because you love him so much that even now, all you want to do is serve, and when he is gone, you will not be around much longer.?
Sometimes it is about breaking your toys so you can rebuild them. It is about taking responsibility for fixing the bullshit that the previous D-type did to this one, because you love her so much you cannot stand seeing her suffer.
Sometimes it means getting off your lazy ass and actually serving her for a change, because she?s devoted all of her adult life to serving you. Sometimes it is about doing that, and it does not lessen you one single bit.?
It is always about taking personal responsibility for your actions. Whether Top or bottom, Master or slave, Dominadurrrr and surbbybutt, whatever you want to call it, it means you CHOOSE your own path, and it is your responsibility to either better it, live with it, or step away from it. Either way, you pay your own consequences. Tell me where in your reading where Christian ?wealthier than god? Gray ever gave a shit about personal responsibility?
I am glad that there are so many new people in BDSM, but it makes me sick to see how so many people are trying to change the lifestyle into something that could possibly fit into ?polite society?.?
Let me make one thing abundantly clear. We are the fucking outsiders. We are NOT the norm. We are the sexual deviants, the kinky fuckers, the sadistic weirdos, the patched together little humilidolls. This scene is filled with people that are broken, and this is the one way that many of us have found to derive enjoyment in our fucked up lives. I am a twisted little demon child, and because I found people that are just as twisted as I am, I have found joy and laughter and life.?
Who the fuck are YOU to tell me that what I am doing is wrong? What gives you the right to dictate to me what is the One Twue Way? Tell me about how Christian did blahblahblah and thus you should be doing blahblahblah.
Fuck Christian Gray. Fuck E.L. James, and fuck you too.?
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Aeolis Est.
f r o s t | l o t u s productions
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I've been noticing a vanilla turn in the profiles of this site, this isn't a swingers site this is collarme, for those of you just looking for a hook up or multiple partners go somewhere else, I just hope some Dom hooks up with all these swingers and ties them up and whips them in to our lifestyle or out of it either way they will know they are looking in the wrong place. |
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If you want to see pics of me and what I do go to under the same name and you can see me and my current slaves |
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Well for the first time ever I had to exercise my right to terminate a contract, I'm not sure if what she had was a chemical imbalance or a mental episode but things went horribly wrong, after restraining her violently due to her trying to destroy my home ,I was able to get in touch with some of her family to find out that she has mental problems(way more than what the norm would think about me and my lifestyle) and is supposed to be on medications that are really strong to keep her right, if this information would've been disclosed to me I wouldn't have taken on this prospect but now she is "professionally" bound until her meds are right and come to find out she gets "professionally" bound almost annually. Had I known about her annual mental hospital stays and her meds I wouldn't have ever brought her in to my extreme bdsm world, but as I said she neglected to mention that in our pre play meetings and conversation. So lesson learned now it will be a lot more challenging to come here for training I think I'm going to do waivers and applications just to save my self the grief |
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After a week we signed a new contract and things have smoothed out a bit, I believe she lied about her past experience, but no matter, she is coming along very nicely now, |
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I've signed a short term agreement with a sub/slave she is one of those I want it but I don't want to give in types, so far I have found her pain tolerance to be very high but her self esteem very low,she is very self conscious about her weight even though she is 5'9" tall and a size 12 very height and weight proportionate with a nice big ass, the girls in her family are all size0 so she has a hard time accepting her curvy healthy figure(I don't know why because she is a knock out)a self proclaimed nerd and very intelligent, the current contract stands at a week with a possible extension til December, but even though she has read the house and my personal rules and memorized them almost instantly she is pushing limits and has been punished daily, if we agree on the next contract she is certainly brig bound for a while, more later, we will see what happens |
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Well it's been a little while since I posted to this journal so I figure an update was due here, the last woman I interviewed didn't pan out she went back to a vanilla world, I had another woman I interviewed since I met on another site in her profile it said she is 5'6" and 140# when I met her she is closer to 5' even and 300# I don't know why anyone has to lie, and if your gonna lie why would you meet in real life? What did she think I wouldn't notice?(rotfl)I am not against a bigger woman so don't get on me about being shallow but I want to know upfront that and the morality of it if she's going to lie about that what else is she going to lie about?since then I've had a handful of responses on a couple sites including this one but, no keepers, they don't think I'm real. I have a request to all that have read my journal, just a simple thing if your interested in me or not please message me and tell me what,why,how, am I coming off as fake. I don't hide anything I put it all out there, more often than not I get the response that I'm to good to be true or there is no way that I do the things I do. When I actually get truly interested in some one I send them my cell number which for some reason from this site I have had only three people text and no calls after sending out hundreds of message I've probably sent my number to 15, yet from other sites, I probably send my number to one out of ten and two out of ten of the ones that get my number actually call, what gives here, is there really that many fake "bad apple" online wanna bes here, so much so the real deal can't shine through, open for comments and suggestions. Grandmaster Jason |
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Ok I know this is the second post to my journal in 8 hours but I just got to ask is there anyone on here with any sexual skills at all? Seriously if you can't suck a dick or if you have no pussy control at all or you don't know how to move properly how can you ever expect to keep someone really?yes I know this it out of the blue but let me explain. We had a client tonight that basically wanted an opinion of her sexual skill so I fucked her. It started by her blowing me very poor form dragging teeth had to tell her and even get slave Ginger to show her how to do it right, then she couldn't get in to a comfortable position for penetration she with squeezed her legs together on her back or arched it like a halloween cat while doggy style very poor form, then she was so tight that I had to use half a bottle of lube to get in her but once I did her pusdy was like a balloon tight at the opening but no muscle inside, then after she had 11 orgasms (yes I counted them) she was to tired and out of breath to continue..... Mind you I'm on top .. And I had to get mine with slave Ginger... And when I told her the truth about how poor she was and what I could do to help her she got up set and left. Really fucking really she asked for my opinion and I gave it. Ain't my fault that the "30 something" guys she had been with didn't tell her what was up. The caring master in me wants to help her and train her in to a whore, but being who I am and what I do I just have to say don't let your mouth write checks your ass can't cash.... Literally. Now I know this is kinda graphic and personal which is why I said no name but I'm sure she will read this and be pissed but, who gives a fuck lol. So just a little lesson to all girls no legs together unless I put them together no arched up back while doggystyle arched down yes not up, no teeth dragging, cardio cardio cardio, and do your keigel exercises, and control your orgasms or I will control them for you, actually fuck it new rule, I will tell you when and how often you can cum, you can ask but if I say no it's NO. And last but certainly not least don't ask for my opinion and not be able to handle the truth because the truth is all I have time for! There is less bullshit and drama that way. |
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It don't make any sense to me how many girls here have told me they are not interested. The ones that I have personally had, have been spoiled to say the least. I take care of all the bills, buy them things weekly, give them the best quality of everything, from food to shampoo. Are they slaves? yes because I do expect them to do chores and or work or go to school if not all the above. They also must consent to losing all control in their day to day life, but every slave that I have personally possessed and "lost" was due to a family matter a death or poor childhood or shitty parents,addiction and now one of my new rules is if you can't admit to your family that you are in a poly house and that I have control over your life then I don't want you. Sounds cruel I know, but is it any more cruel than a Christian marriage think of wedding vows you agree to "love, honor and obey" that is all I expect of my slaves. My other rules are a minimum of a certain number of orgasms per day, and availability to me at all times, am I going to bind you or fuck you or punish you? Yes ofcourse, but in your day to day life here you will be spoiled like a rich bitch. As long as you live by my rules. See being a master isn't about being cruel and unusual thats the stuff the vanilla world sees us as because of extreme videos and magazines. What they don't see is the love and compassion a real master has for his prized possession. It's not all about whips and chains as much as you loving and trusting your master to make the proper life decisions for you and you will love him with absolute trust for that. This really doesn't apply to the submissives that just play on the weekends and just want to be pushed harder and harder but the true live in life slaves. I must say to all the real life slaves out there you deserve the best of the best and if you ain't getting it then move on, you don't need to live in a trailer and eat tv dinners and use suave shampoo, and let drunk"Earl" tie you up and beat you everynight. That's not bdsm life that's abuse and thats no way to treat your prize possession. I guess enough ranting. Time to move on to profiles to see who is fake or not interested in the good life...... |
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Sick of searching profiles for what I'm looking for. There is some scams going on. They have great pictures but when it comes down to it they ask for a prepayment for paperwork or travel expenses. Now don't get me wrong I don't mind paying travel expenses for the right and real slaves but, im more likely to come and pick you up myself or send a private driver to get you ,also I do realize that that some of the slave registration banks do charge for a transfer of ownership but it's up to me to pay for that transfer UPON DELIVERY not pre-paid and then you would have to sign papers or I would have to legally change the slaves name and registration numbers. Which by the way is cheaper and easier to do. So you might think your smart but don't fuck with the grandmaster I know my way around anything you might have and friends and acquaintances enough to get my way regardless. On to another subject. To any slaves/subs out there considering anyone as a master or owner.until you submit they don't own you and should be courteous and respectful you think you can't live with out them, but you are to be either their prize possession or atleast one of their prize possessions, but at the same time know that you are property once you become a slave which means you can be traded,sold,loaned,borrowed,used so think wisely in your choices and be sure your master/owner can meet your needs not just in the bedroom but socially,financially,medically there is a lot to consider on both parts. If you show up to a supposed masters home and he is driving a chevette and living in a travel trailer it's probably time to leave, also for you masters if your 24 year old slave shows up with rotten teeth and sores all over you probably need to send them back immediately.anyway enough ranting for tonight and yes this was brought around by a new recruit showing up with a bottle and upon checking, multiple drugs, not in my dungeon.if you can't take it straight you just can't take it. Like a tattoo if you can't handle it. DONT DO IT! No room for amateurs looking for a free ride. Grandmaster Jason |
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I don't know if I should feel insulted or take it as a compliment but someone I chatted with said that what I told them my life was like and how I did things sounded like b.s. And it was to good to be true so they were gonna put me with their list of fakes, haha Im not gonna apologize for having a better lifestyle than most or for having enough income to live comfortably if you can't believe that well then don't, I really don't care I know who I am and what I have done the years of sacrifice to get ahead the schools and hard work to be able to get ahead in the monopoly of life, some good investments(and a lot of bad ones)yes I am young for what I have and how I live but I did start not only this lifestyle but working towards big goals at a young age, I go to the gym everyday, I drive nice cars, I live in a big house, and no I'm not bragging I'm just stating the facts but there has been a lot of blood sweat and tears to get this far. I don't usually put all this type of info out there because I don't want a gold digging bitch to come and think they can play me for money. I am intelligent I didn't get this far by making bad decisions but for the right slave/slaves there is obviously a financial umbrella here to cover any worry they might of ever had. So if I send you a message and we chat or text I don't want you to think I'm buying you when I offer a plane ticket or a ride here, it's my way of being face to face with the ones I like and want to meet because anybody can be anybody online but I am the same here or in real life are you? Grandmaster Jason |
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I'm so tired of looking at profiles and sending messages with no response or a quick back and forth chat and then they disappear, please show a little respect If your not interested say so, if your scared say so, a lot of you I think don't believe what I send or have to offer because it fits to well with what you want, I know it sounds cliche but trust me I'm real and I shoot straight no b.s. If you don't like that I really don't give a fuck that's how I am, brutally honest, I would rather hurt now than get caught up in lies protecting myself or others from whatever, just tell the truth have integrity and be yourself, we are all grown folks here(or should be anyway) and should be able to communicate and handle rejection. Grandmaster Jason |
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| Age: 34 |
| Chillicothe,
Missouri |
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