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ruby31
Im 36 and have been interested in dominationsubmission, bondage and SM for as long as I can remember, but have been active for about 10 years. During the time that I have been active my experiences have been mostly enjoyable and educational. The one thing that I have found is there are a lot of people who are not who or what they claim to be. If we talk dont be offended if Im skeptical of you at first. Trust needs to be earned.



I have an insatiable sex drive and like to play hard in the bedroom. Im a huge fan of oral getting a good blow job, being deep throated or face fucking. I have a number of toys but Im always looking for new ones and to use the ones I have in all new ways. I also have a leather sex swing that I still want to try out.



Even though this is a sex based website I have other aspects to my life. I have a sarcastic personality and enjoy laughing. Im active with several organizations and an avid outdoors man. I dont get to camp as often as I would like but go when ever possible. When not working for myself I enjoy being with friends and brewing beer as a hobby.



I have to apologize for a crappy picture I had to take this with my cell phone because collar me wont let me upload one from my computer.





A few things that Ive done and really enjoy



*I love receiving oral, getting deep throated and face fucking. *Bondage with leather restraints and metal cuffs. *king a girl with paddles, crops, switch, flogger, belt or my hand. *I like Bondage, SM, Domination.

*Clamps and clips especially on breast and nipples. *Orgasm controldenial. *Biting. *Hair pulling. *Waking a girl up with sex. *I also enjoy vanilla sex some times.



Just because I like something doesnt mean I have to do it with every girl I meet or talk to.

This is just a list of some of the activities I have experienced which I plan on increasing.





I want to try.



*Possibly play with an older woman who has the fantasy of being dominated by a younger man. *I would like to try a three some with two women, either two submissive women or a submissive woman and a woman who is a switch (male subfemale domme). *I would like to get into rope use it has always fascinated me but I have never done it.

I know there are more and I will add them.





I have talked to too many people that arent what they claim to be so here are a just a few things that dont make you a sub or a dom

*The use of Ccap doesnt mean a thing.

*Claiming a role doesnt mean a thing.

*Sub is short for submissive not subjugation that would be a Slave. (I just capitalized both those S)

*Domination isnt about taking control its about being given control. (So yes technically the sub is in control.)

*There are many types and styles of domsubslave relationships. They dont have to be 247 but they can be. I prefer a sub in bed and an equal in life.

*Everything is based on trust.

(I will add Im sure and feel free to give me your thoughts too.)

Some of these are base on my personal experiences and others are based on those friends have talked to me about. If you understand these we might actually be able to have a educated conversation I look forward to that.







A few things that are intolerable to me are



First if you are a guy this is the only polite response you will get. Im not interested I dont care what skills you have or how I can use your body. I dont even care how feminine you look or if you dress like a women if you dont breast and three holes back out of my profile and keep looking. Im happy to have a conversation with almost anyone but dont take that a desire to play with you.

If you live in the Philippines or Cambodia and are willing to be my slave after I relocate you here leave me alone. I will not ship you here for my pleasure. I know you are not real, dont insult my intelligence.

If you cant type a complete sentence or you talk using Ebonics all you are going to do is piss me off. Typos are one thing they happen to everyone but if everything out of your mouth or what you write makes you sound ignorant then we arent meant to talk.







Who I am looking for

First and most important is you have to be REAL and HONEST. Be who you say you are. I dont mind having a conversation and talking with almost anyone regardless of your gender or sexuality. If you dont fit who Im looking for in a playmate it doesnt mean I wont talk to you it only means we arent going to be playing.



If I find a women that I click with Im not apposed to things progressing but Im also open to finding women to have fun and experience kinks with. You must be DD free because I am and plan to stay that way. Trust is also very important if we are going to play, I need to be able to trust you. Im sure it is even more important to you to be able to trust me. This is why we will talk at length before we play in real life.



I would like to find women who know what she wants or is open to learning and exploring. You can be a novice or a veteran to this lifestyle. I enjoy having fun with experienced or inexperienced women. Being patient with a newbie is fine because it is more of a challenge and test of my ability. I also enjoy a woman who is ready for it all and more. Dont care for online games, cyber sex, or people that are all talk, dont waste my time or yours.

If you have a school girl outfit even better.

Message and let me know if youre interested. If Im too far away thats fine I also enjoy just having a conversation.







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chronicaSWITCH
 
 Age: 50
 San Francisco Bay, California