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Hanami

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First and foremost please dont call me by any title or honorific. We are not in a Ds dynamic and I refuse to be forced to feel like Im in one when reading your message. That is an honour that will need to be earned. If you message me you my address me as Hanami. Now that weve gotten that out of the way



I am a woman who knows what she wants and isnt willing to settle for anything less.



I have been active in the local BDSM community for the past 7 years and I have experimented with pretty much all of the elements within it except edge play (which I have no interest in) and am currently looking for a male service sub.



I am posting this add to find pleasure, preferably mutual, not for any monetary gain. ThusI am not a pro. Tributes, funds, or exchanges will not be part of any dynamic. I am also not a sugarmommy and have no desire to support anyone.



I am actively seeking someone who wants to serve. Someone who gains pleasure from serving. Services could, but wouldnt necessarily, include cleaning, cooking, running errands, driving me around and such. Being handy around the house would be a big bonus. If all of that can get done to my satisfaction thenmassages, manicures pedicures, beauty rituals (waxing, facials, scrubs, etc), and maybe even oral service will be introduced.



Health and physique is a very important element of what I am looking for, so taking care of your body through regular work outs and a good diet is imperative. Also only interested in non-smokers. I also prefer men who speak English, are highly educated and come from Western societies.



What Im into ification, foot worship,rope bondageshibari (need someone to practice on), cucholding, some CBT, stimulating conversations, delicious food, good music, travelling and plenty more.Im an INFJ and tick pretty much all of the associated boxes.



Order of events Generally I like to receive thoughtful and intelligent messages that display that youve actually read my profile, then we might exchange a couple of messages and if I feel comfortable enough I will arrange for us to meet in a casual public place. If the first meeting goes well then a series of subsequent (also public) meetings will be arranged. This will be ongoing until I feel comfortable enough to let you into my home. Household chores and duties will be taughtassessed and expanded upon on an ongoing basis. Please note that it generally takes me quite some time to get comfortable with any new people in my life so this process might be long (ie. dont get in contact if youre looking for a quick fix), with intimate physical contact usually taking the longest (if it even gets there).



The ideal scenario for me would be finding someone who gets pleasure from the duties that I want done. Rewards can be worked out accordingly. Tell me how you can serve me andwhat gets you off (hopefully theyre one and the same) and well see if a common ground can be found that works for both of us.



All the disclaimers

If you message me with anything that smells remotely of you baiting me for wanking fodder you will be blocked.



I am a successful professional with a healthy support system and a very loving extended family (no husband or kids). I am socially and emotionally well adjusted and would expect the same from my submissive. I am not interested in being a saviour, mother, humiliator or degrader. I am not interested in making all of your decisions for you.I am fiercely independent and am not looking to create any dependents, I dont want anything live-in or 247.



Also not interested in anything online (the services I am after would be a little difficult to complete remotely). Put another wayI do not have the time, energy or inclination to cultivate a long distance relationship that may or may not lead to re Similarly, I am not interested in any one-off experiences.



Under no circumstances will I be giving you my mobile number or chatting to you on whatsapp or skype so please dont ask.



The scenario would require me to allow a man into my home, essentially putting myself at risk. Before we get there trust has to be built so if youre not willing to invest time determining if we are platonically compatible, and for me to determine that you are trustworthy and not a threat to me, then please move along.



Im not big on punishment. Or even medium. Or even small on it. I am an empath (and not a masochist) so hurting anyone hurts me and thats not something I enjoy. Not even a little. Also, its exhausting and my energy is precious.



Im huge on consent so if you have a partner and they arent aware (ie. they havent even been given the option of providing or denying consent) of you approaching me (in the event that you do) looking for some side action then youre breaking one of my hard limits. Not cool and it wont be tolerated or entertained.



Lastly, I am not Asian or Arab, despite my location and handle.

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kizzykim21
 
 Age: 23
 Canada