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Ladybendover94
Sexuality: Demisexual. Basically, I don't experience sexual arousal/attraction unless there is a strong emotional connection there. It isn't listed on our options and neither is asexual. Now that I'm out of school for the summer, I have a lot more freedom as far as internet use is concerned. So I'm going to put a brief ish update here. My name is Hailey. Hails is a nickname from some of my closer friends. I'm 19 (20 in September because I will more than likely forget to do that little update) and a college student. I am currently under a dom (who is not on here) with a brother sub (who also is not on here) All of us are on but that's another story altogether. I'm only on here for friends. Nothing more, nothing less. If you have not messaged me, and we have never talked before, please do not add me as a friend. I get really peeved about that. And please, for the love of all that is good, do not let your first message to me be sexual because I will then proceed, in all of my snark, sarcasm, and brattiness, to rip you a new one. I can straight up be a bitch if I have to, and I most certainly am not afraid to. But send me a message. I'm mostly a nice person. So long as I'm treated with the basic respect and dignity that you would give anybody you had just met in the real world, I can be very nice and kind and a fun person to know. any questions? Why not drop me a message?
1/18/2013 1:35:05 PM

I really wish you had to read the person's profile to message them. I seriously get so pissed off when people don't read your profile. Like, you have a question about if I'm okay with something? It's on my profile. You have a question about my sexuality? It's on my profile. If you need clarification, ask away. You want to talk about it? Ask away. But if you don't even read my profile (because guess what? it tells you who reads your profile!) Don't sit there and get snarky with me because I'm not interested in what you're offering when I state it ON MY PROFILE

 

Further more, how dare anyone insult my sexual preferences based on the sexuality I put? The first thing in my profile is how I put bisexual because it's the closest to my sexuality. I even go on to EXPLAIN what pansexual is and what my preferences are. they show that in the PREVIEW. You don't even have to open my page. Really? Was that too much effort?

1/12/2013 11:13:14 AM

I just thought I would explain something. During the winter I get depressed. Not just sad and mopey, but full swing, all the way down. I want to curl up and sleep. Not have to move, not have to do anything. Perfection would be a dark room, low music, and nobody to bother me. It becomes really hard for me to pick myself up and talk to people at all. 

Some people think I have seasonal depression. I haven't been diagnosed with anything. I just wanted to put that out that, for understandings sake. 

12/15/2012 7:17:41 PM

I've been thinking about the differences between a sub and a slave. Now, what I'm about to say I just my opinion. it seems to me that sub has a connotation that implies more freedom. In my mind that signals wanting to submit sexually or in private, but still have a life of their own an the freedom to make decisions in regards to that life. A slave implies handing over complete control to the master, not really having a say. Being a slave is not what I want. There are things I want out of life and I want control over, like working, children, marrying (or not marrying) now I know there is a spectrum within each of these, so this is just my thoughts and feelings.

GHF123
 
 Age: 28
 Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania