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Bukakke: Urban legend defines this as a Japenese punishment for an unfaithful women who was made to kneel while at least 8 men ejaculated onto her. The practice lost favor when it was discovered that many woman appreciated this act. Would this be a form of discipline or a treat for you? |
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Cyber Dom: While most people out there are looking for real time experience, there are certain benefits to letting your wicked imagination out to explore erotic ideas. This kind of banter can be quite satisfying. Have most of U/us out there tried it at one time or another? |
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Taken in Hand - Recently found the Domestic Discipline aspect of this lifestyle. Many women appreciate a man who will take charge inside and outside of the bedroom. One of the key concepts is "consensual non-consent". Anybody brave enough to share their experience with it? |
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Daddy Dom - Being a real life Daddy, I was skeptical that I would be attracted to this type of relationship, however there are many aspects that are appealing. This can be a very intimate relationship with some powerful dynamics. |
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Couples - There are many profiles where a couple is looking to add someone to their dynamic. Just curious whether male or female is more desired as well as Dominant or submissive.
Will this add to the couple's relationship or just scratch an itch? |
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DomCon 2010 - May 14th thru May 16th is the now annual convention in Los Angeles. There are many things to see and learn. I'm planning a Sunday visit. Curious to see what's there? |
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Jealousy - This green eyed monster wields a very destructive influence. Can it be tamed or subdued? Which gender is more susceptible to be caught in its grip?
This is something I would like to understand more completely. |
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Is cock worship awesome or what! - All the glorious aspects and sensations of a warm hungry mouth. Looking down into the depths of eyes eagerly pleasing. A voyeur of self pleasure watching lips caressing hard and growing flesh. Running fingers through silky locks to the flicking of a tongue tracing every curve and pulsing vein. Hope you're hungry because I've prepared a meal just for you.
Who's better at it, a man or a woman?
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Beauty Marks - Few things are as satisfying for both Dominant and submissive as leaving a mark.
The symbols of the power exchange are many and varied, from the collar worn around the neck to bruises and stripes adorning the flesh.
Golden showers and cum facials are primal methods of establishing the dynamic that Master and slave are jointly pursuing.
Always interested in seeking new beauty marks! |
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BDSM Weight Loss - Over the years I have met a number of people that expressed a desire to have diet and weight loss as part of their D/s experience.
What's really needed is a change of behavior. There are some BDSM practices that lend itself to this.
Would you be willing to dedicate yourself to change for 30 days? If so ask? |
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Cuckholding & the Cream Pie: This is a fetish often expressed by male submissives. The fantasy is to have a woman satisfied by another and then to provide a cleaning service afterward. How do women feel about this? Do they want to receive or give either one or both? I'm an enquiring mind! |
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Pleasure or Pain: What's the most powerfully way to affect and maintain a submissive's mindset? Once someone is addicted to either or both, it's a hunger that won't go away or be satisfied for long. |
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Fantasy Rape: What a taboo topic this is for so many reasons. Yet far below the surface there is a fascination with having power or being over powered. Lots of things to consider in creating a successful scene, definately not a spur of the moment event. |
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This sounds romantic.
Threshold is having a vendor fair called Kinky Valentine on Saturday, Feb. 14th that is open to the community if you want to come down and take a look around.
Below is the info for that day:
The Fair is from noon to 6 PM and we'll have vendors, food, a kinky spa, other attractions. Check out the website at mykinkyvalentine.com
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ANR & ABF: Until about a month ago I wasn't aware of this area of interest, but lately I've seen it more and more often. I have to admit being curious about how this would fit into a good D/s relationship.
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Resolutions - The short week between Christmas and New Year's is a great time to reflect on the upcoming year. Judging what is important from what is distraction is not as easy as W/we think. I know how important this aspect of My Being is and I know I will purposely pursue it in 2009. |
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Labels. What's in a name? I find it interesting not only how We view ourselves but how others view U/us. A lot of times the seemingly available words don't completely describe our personality but will have to do until something better comes along. |
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Play Party January 3rd (Orange County)! Anyone curious enough to attend! |
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A favorite scene that I witnessed involved a sub, wearing only some high heeled shoes, enduring an erotic beating while tethered to a spider web made of chain link.
A variety of instruments were used including a flogger, canes and paddles. The Dom alternated nicely between pain and pleasure eliciting groans and yelps for painful sensations and sighs and moans for soothing ones.
Suffering whatever He wanted the sub struggled to endure the increasing harsh blows. At some points she began to stamp her feet when the pain reached a heightened intensity. What made the scene beautiful and interesting was the chemistry and common sense of purpose that the Dom and sub shared.
Doesn't that sound like fun?
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Fantasy vs Reality. I am a great fan of fantasy. Those imaginitive ideas that energize and invigorate. The great thing about fantasy is it flows smoothly and seemlessly as it progresses. Bringing those thoughts and longings to fruition is a different story. Real life is full of hiccups and plot complications, but in the final analysis there is nothing so sweet as the actual. |
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The Search. Every journey begins with that first step. Today Mine started anew. The destination is already clear, but the path, the road travelled to get there is the real adventure.
It's interesting to Me how many people are frustrated with the process. Somewhat like rolling a stone up the hill only to have it roll back down and have to start again.
I don't know what's going to happen, but I plan to enjoy the ride. |
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