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Id like to start with a quote that is a bit of a personal moto.

A mediocre Master tells, a good Master teaches, an excellent Master explains, but a True Master inspires.
- Leonardo Da Vinci

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If you recognize the app in the 3rd picture on my profile, and you enjoy it, we should talk.

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I started quite early in this lifestyle but recognize that I am still quite young. I know I have much to learn but also that I have a wealth of knowledge to share. Over the years Ive learned and experienced things that have brought me to the understanding that Im most fulfilled in a relationship rooted in Domestic Discipline (DD).

For me, DD is a very subtle Dominantsubmissive lifestyle lived inside the relationship, not outwardly. DD is the caring, consensual, use of discipline as a positive way to enhance communication, deepen intimacy and reinforce relationship commitment.

I have respectfully lived, trained and mentored other in the DD style of life for about 10 years. I have learned in that time the beautiful balance between a Head Of Household and his Taken in Hand slave can lead to a peaceful place, a tranquil refuge from the often stressful lives we lead, and most importantly a home where a man and woman can express their love for one another.

It takes time and a strong man to understand his Dominant nature. A Dominant is not a dictator. A HOH is more of a guide to take in hand his wonderful slave and guide them both continually along a path of happiness.

I believe it takes a HOH time to gain the balance of knowledge, empathy compassion needed to understand his role of self sacrifice, nurturing, patience, firmness, discipline and forgiveness. And, how to properly appropriately correct behavior that the TIH has brought forward in areas she would like to improve within herself. This is done for her own personal growth and the strengthening of bonds in their sensually unique and positive relationship.

The balance and timing is understood when his responsibility dictates a strict hand is necessary, or when holding his loved one in his arms for support encouragement is a more appropriate and long lasting way to obtain goals and strengthen the intimacy and commitment of their relationship. In any case, whatever decision the HOH makes he follows through with his slaves best interest in his heart with consistency, fairness, aftercare, forgiveness and follow-up.

As in the most important aspects of our lives... time, understanding and patience bring the highest rewards. I know that just because someone is a HOH and someone is TIH, that does not automatically make them a relationship match. It does take time to find a person whose ideas coincide naturally with your own to create a peaceful loving relationship built on the foundation of friendship, love, honesty and mutual respect.

At least, thats my feelings on the day to day lifestyle part of who I am as a person HOHDominant. There is also more about my thoughts on the the subtle power exchange, sensual, sexual and emotional aspects involved between a HOH TiH living within a DD relationship.

That information is for another post, another day, another time... D

If my writing has struck a chord with you, or if youre interested in talking, Im always open to conversation.

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susanlove
 
 Age: 38
 Vancouver, Washington