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	I am by nature a Dom. I do however not believe that this makes me any smarter or any better than anyone else, but more one part of a very equal and special relationship. I don't answer to Sir, Master or Mr, i like my name and believe titles are only for people who need a reassurance of who they are. I am very open to all the possibilities that being with someone might bring. I have a very open and understanding mind on the many types of relationships that can be formed and the many activities that can come from them. I am however most mindful that nothing can be achieved without mutual trust, understanding and respect. I believe that with these things shared, anything and everything is possible and that everyone will get not only what they want but more importantly what they really need. Of course, i also have a very interesting vanilla life and would hope any future partner would have one as well. I cannot imagine how boring life would be without it and the many wonderful things that should be enjoyed together. BDSM is not my be all and end all, but merely a part of the sum of me and whilst the two parts often overlap, neither dominates my life to the detriment of the other. I will not lie nor will i play anyone for selfish gains, my only wish is to find someone to share the journey with.

1/3/2014 2:13:00 AM

I RECENTLY HAD A DOMME CONTACT ME AND DEMAND TO KNOW WHY I HAD USED CAPITALS IN MY JOURNAL ENTRY.

I POLITELY INTRODUCED MYSELF AND ASKED WHO SHE WAS.

HER REPLY WAS THAT SHE WAS NOT INTERESTED IN FRIVOLITY AND THAT I HAD NOT ANSWERED HER QUESTION.

I INDICATED TO HER THAT POLITE INTRODUCTIONS WERE NOT FRIVOLOUS BUT RATHER ABOUT BEING POLITE AND A MATTER OF COURTESY.

SHE DEMANDED THAT I ANSWER HER QUESTION AND WHEN I REPLIED THAT I FELT THAT I WAS UNDER NO OBLIGATION TO ANSWER TO ANYONE AND ESPECIALLY HER SHE RESPONDED BY TELLING ME THAT I WAS AS STUPID AS I LOOKED IN MY PHOTO AND THEN BLOCKED ME.

BEING A GENTLEMAN MEANS I WONT NAME HER BUT I THINK SHE HAS ANSWERED HER OWN QUESTION AS TO WHY I WRITE MY JOURNAL ENTRIES IN CAPITALS.

12/5/2010 6:28:54 PM

I'VE BEEN ON THIS SITE ON AND OFF FOR A FEW YEARS NOW AND HAVE MET SOME AMAZING PEOPLE AND SHARED SOME WONDERFUL EXPERIENCES BUT I CAN'T HELP BUT LAUGH AT THE SAME OLD PEOPLE BEHAVING IN THE SAME OLD WAY, AND I'M TALKING ABOUT DOMMES NOW.

EVERYONE ELSE ON HERE IS NICE, POLITE AND RESPECTFUL BUT MOST OF YOU ARE DEMANDING OF ALL THIS WITHOUT EVEN A THOUGHT OF RETURNING IT. YOU NEED TO GET A GRIP AND LIGHTEN UP.

WE ARE ALL HERE SEARCHING FOR SOMETHING WETHER PERMANENT OR TEMPORARY TO FULFILL A NEED, YOUR NO DIFFERENT AND CERTAINLY NO BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE. HELL IF YOU WERE WHY WOULD YOU NEED TO BE HERE AT ALL, LET ALONE FOR YEARS ON END.