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Jessicawood
EXPERIENCED Dom, Seeking a female sub 40-55 for LTR After 19 years I released my previous sub. We had a good relationship but it’s well past time for me to move on. I'm looking for a life-time D/s relationship, and I am crystal clear about what I seek. So please read the entire profile before contacting me. For a relationship to become serious, you would have to be willing to commit 100% to a relationship as a submissive mate. This means you leave your ex husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, or whoever behind for a new beginning. I’m searching for the right woman, 40-55 yrs old, to spend the rest of my life with. Please know that the age is not as important as your understanding of this lifestyle and your role. Your size and shape aren't as important as your grooming habits. I like feminine women. I like painted finger nails and toe nails. I like makeup. If your favorite clothes includes pajamas and flip flops I'll get bored quick. Really quick. I'm a fetishist in the true sense of the word. My fetish is simply sexy women. Defined by the wrappings. Know why they wrap presents? Because it makes the package more exciting. If you like fashionable shoes I think there isn't anything sexier than a woman in heels, clothing optional ;) and if wearing shoes or anything else I specify offends you then you are in the wrong place. You are here after all to submit to and to please me, do not forget this. And always know the love I return will go beyond anything you have ever experienced. Vanilla anything is boring to me in this lifestyle so I say again your understanding of this lifestyle and the role of a submissive woman is critical. More about me: I don't look my age but I won't lie to you about it. People think I'm in my forties. I act the part, and I'm active in life. I fish, dive, ride my Harley, camp, travel, exercise, etc. I’ve been sexually dominant since my teens. I realize that while kinky sex is great, for me it’s really all about the power exchange. It's about how to fulfill a woman's desire to submit and in turn fulfill my desire to dominate. I understand my sadistic side. I have a particular fondness for women who are masochists, who enjoy accepting some degree of pain for sexual stimulation and as an act of submission. My last sub was with me for 19 years and she still loves me because at our best I fulfilled every part of her and she did me. She came to the relationship with nothing and she left with real estate, a car, a retirement account and money. She's a person not a thing. I bettered her life. This kind of relationship is healthier than the purist user relationship that so many on this website seek that ignores the fact that the other person is a valuable human being. I am about mutual gain and satisfaction not using someone. About you:  You have a photo in your profile, or you e-mail me one that shows your build and body style with your first communication. If you want to conceal your face for privacy, fine. But since I've posted a photo clearly showing my general build and body shape, please reciprocate. Don’t send me a photo 5 or 10 years old. I want to see you now.  For long-term consideration, you have D/s or M/s experience or at least understand the difference between the two and sincerely want to explore submission on a fulltime 24/7 basis. If you're not sure what I'm talking about, you are certainly in the wrong place.  You DO NOT SMOKE.  You care about yourself, and take care of your body. You don’t have to be a Barbie-doll model type, but looks do count. If you weigh more than my Harley, I'm sorry but we're not a match for an intimate relationship.  You are not cheating on anyone, deceiving anyone, or otherwise being dishonest. This is no way to start a relationship. And I won't share you unless it's with another woman on a strictly casual basis only but this is by no means a requirement. I regard the whole online dating thing here at CM as a useful way to meet people with a common interest (BDSM). However, for me, cybersex, protracted e-mail relationships, etc. are not interesting. If you seek an online cybersex partner, please look elsewhere. If you are a scam artist or blackmailer, don't waste your time. I've been around the scene a long time, and know all the scams. If you write me and I don't reply, it's most likely because you didn't respect my request (clearly stated above) that you have something to say (I don't reply to one-liners). You also need to either have a photo in your profile or include one with your first e-mail. If you want to conceal your identity or just feel bashful, do as I've done in my profile and send me a photo giving me a sense of your build and body style, and crop off enough of your face to make it anonymous. I make a policy of always responding to all bona fide inquiries as a matter of courtesy, even if only to politely decline those that don't seem like a match. So if you write me and don't hear back, it's probably because I thought you were a scam artist. (I get several of those e-mails daily). One liners and messages that clearly reveal the sender hasn't read this profile will be also ignored.
ambrosiaflame
 
 Age: 28
 Nome, Arkansas