A relationship in this life style is much deeper than any relationship a woman and a man will ever have in a vanilla relationship. The levels of trust, safety, protection and love that go so much deep no one would ever dream 2 people could have that much trust and love for each other. I am a sexual sadist pure and simple. I want someone that will have complete trust in me. She will take my beatings just because of her love for me. Now with my slave there will be also times where I will show her tenderness and gentle love. There could never only just be pain for my mate she was born a woman first and she needs to feel the love and tenderness all women desire. My slave she will never fear me or her safety with me, but she will fear what levels I will take her to.