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About Me:
Relaxed and independent - and now seeking someone to share life's fun, quirks and odd bits with.
I respond best to folks I can trust - and who enjoy a healthy sense of humour and adventure.
My ideal mate / partner is someone who values friendship - rather than "makes use of it". Not into "fair weather friends" really.
In an ideal world, I am interested in a slim to medium build local lad with a zest for fun - typical "lad next door". If heavier than average but toned, that fine too. I am overweight - and folks anywhere near my size do not do it for me for a 1-2-1 relationship. I know that sounds shallow but it saves awkward silences later.
Fetishes
Into: back flogging (receiving), flogging upper back (receiving), foot/feet, oral sex (giving), single tail whips (receiving), whips.
Curious about: anal sex, discipline, electrotorture, fisting, leather, masochism, pain, piercings (receiving), rubber, watersports.
My interests include geeky things but also decent beer, "the usual", and doubtless many things that I haven't yet tried. I have a class IV Argon laser called fluffy which I have been experimenting with to make a genuine laser brander - but she isn't ever so portable so still tend to use a plasma brander which I made yonks back.
Get in touch if you reckon we could get along. PLEASE be local OR visit local munches - not interested in way-out-of-county relationships. Don't see the point of starting a friendship when it takes 4 hours by car to meet up for a pint.
If you have a friendly face and are local, then please bung me a message, it would be good to hear from you. If your main profile pic is from the waist down, then please pass me by. A nice face is always a pleasure to see though.
If you are not overly local but pop along to the Wellingborough or Northants munch then PLEASE do send a line - it would be great to say hi.
My BDSM figures as below - I reckon I would agree with it for the most part.
Experimental 86%
Switch 68%
Masochist 64%
Submissive 46%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 43%
Bondage 36%
Degradation Lover 21%
Dominant 21%
Sadist 21%
Vanilla 14%
About Others >
Honesty, friendship, humour and at least a spark of intelligence and/or zest for life. Prefer humour & wit to sarcasm and bitchyness any day. That said, the occasional bit of sarcasm when well timed can be fab - like most seasonings though, "less is more".
Not after physical perfection at all - but for a sexual playmate, I am not really interested outside of the age range given, nor overweight folks. Sorry if that sounds shallow, but being blunt now saves awkward silences later. Have no problems with scars / marks / little fellas, underweight etc. Personality counts LOADS.
For flogging/whipping BDSM playmates (as opposed to sexual), then all I ask for is a degree of sanity and humour. Although I am 6'2" and heavy enough that dropped malteasers remain in orbit around me as opposed to being laid wasted upon the floor, I am nonethless NOT a natural top sexually in any shape or form.
That said, I can flog safely and although fairly inexperienced in the lifestyle, I err on the side of safety when learning new skills and "playing around".
Although not a top, I am also not overly submissive by nature - having been described as a "dominant bottom" - but thankfully not a "do-me" sub.
I am also in need of a male submissive to help with house work and chores - possibly in exchange for free accommodation.
In short, if you want to have a reasonably patient person to practice swinging a new toy, I might be happy to help out - but as an "equal who is happy bottoming for you" if that makes sense.
Total arse of a job trying to explain that really, hopefully you have the gist of it though.
For friends - as opposed to "more than", all I ask is that you are a friendly sort who is worthy of my trust. Age and body size is totally academic, if you want a more personal relationship, then please respect my age limits. If you think I am ageist - don't tell me - just start dating guys OLDER than you instead of asking me to.
Thanks for reading this far - are you having trouble sleeping ? - it's up to you now to decide if you want to bung me a line.
In any event, have fun, play well, be safe
Mark
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