Guess again

I have been on this site for several years off and on under a different name. I have come across some really nice folks and some really creepy ones, and ones not worth anyone’s time. I try to tell people what I’m about and looking for, but no one seems to listen or care, so I will start out with what I don’t want or won’t settle for:

If you’re married and think I will be your mistress on the side, or take care of your ailing wife, guess again.

If you’re younger than 44 and shorter than me, guess again.

If you think I will settle for meeting once a month, guess again.

If you drink more than an occasional drink and think I won’t mind or do drugs, guess again

If you have no sense of humor and think you can put up with mine, guess again, lol.

If you have the attitude that it’s all about you, guess again.

If you’re from another country, Canada included, guess again.

If you’re more than 2 hours a way and think you can move in with me in 6 weeks, guess again

If you think at my age, I’m going to wear a mini skirt in public, guess again.

If you think I’m interested in a ‘sister’ sub, guess again.

If you think I’m going to share my fantasies or talk dirty online, guess again.

If you think a submissive woman does not have any class, guess again.

If you think I’m going to play with you the first time we meet or give you a bj, guess again.

There is NO need to guess, if you are a natural dom who likes to lead and make decisions and can talk about them, who feels just as comfortable cuddling up together as you do punishing when needed; you look for a strong personality and values in your submissive, you love for her to love pleasing you, not just sexually but in other little pleasures; you are not out to degrade her but to be proud of her; you have no problem in taking care of your submissive, but also being a good role model to her child, you understand that family is important and part of the package deal on both sides; you appreciated romance as well as the kink, you like to smile and laugh together. Although I am capable of surviving on my own, I need a man to make me complete. I have a loving, caring soul, I’m honest and don’t play games. There are so many things I want to explore together with you.