~~STOP! READ MY PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING ME!~~
I am a mid-twenties artist, exploring my interests in the kink community. I identify more as a bottom than a submissive, but CM didn't have an option for that. I am mainly here to browse groups, and forum topics, although I am open to talking to people as well.
I try to be open, but tend to be shy, so here's a little bit about me:
I'm a nerd, basically. I like tabletop gaming, online gaming, and computer gaming. I love comic books, and anime. I love conventions more than anything else; I love working at them, hanging out with fellow nerds, and dressing up. I enjoy drawing, writing stories and poetry, and I am very much into European metal music. I also really like cuttlefish. I enjoy being a bit different, hence the hair color. I'm pretty laid back for the most part, and try to enjoy the little things. I am unfortunately cynical in a lot of areas, although I am working on that. I'm kind of introverted, and as such, I'm not really a big social butterfly. I meet a lot of people working at conventions, but I am terrible with remembering names or how I met someone. I am a bit OCD about being polite, and not offending people, which clashes sometimes with me trying to be myself and not care about opinions.
Music is a big part of my life. I can't really imagine a day where I don't listen to music at all. I think it would be awful if I ever went deaf. I enjoy comparing music tastes with people, although I am not too big on country or rap.
I really like my choice fandoms, and by that, I mean cosplay, conventions, fanfiction, and collecting silly things. I also spend a decent amount of time at home on tumblr, giggling at GIF files, and reblogging cool things.
RANDOM FACTS! I don't believe in matching socks. I don't really like the hipster thing. I love video games and coffee and music. I am a fan of wine and chocolate. I love unnatural hair colors. I enjoy doing various crafts, as well as playing dress-up and going out. I enjoy burlesque and other vaudeville-feel sideshow type things. Fire and glitter, yeah! :D
I enjoy pleasing others. Whether it be in my relationships, or just doing something nice for someone, I enjoy giving smiles and happiness to those I care about. I am somewhat new to the BDSM community, and have been trying new things whenever I get the chance, to see what I like and don't like. So far, I have really enjoyed being in the community, making friends, and meeting people. I think it has enhanced my life in a positive way, and helped me to express myself, so I look forward to more of that in the years to come. :)
As to appearance, I change my hair color more than Baskin-Robbins changes flavors, am slightly heavier, and have the general shape of Faye from Questionable Content.
I have an interesting fetish for hands. I am mildly obsessed with them, I love photography of hands, love to draw them, and generally choose partners/significant others whose hands I find attractive. In the kink community, I really enjoy bondage, and err towards the masochistic side.
DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF:
~ your message includes text-speak
~ you sexually objectify me
~ you use words like "baby," "sweetheart," "honey," "gorgeous," "beautiful," when addressing me. Unless I give you my real name, my username is how I prefer to be addressed.
~ your message suggests that you want sex from me
~ within your first message you tell me to ask things about you
I DON'T RESPOND TO THESE THINGS BECAUSE:
~ Text-speak is ANNOYING. If you don't want to take the time to use readable English, I don't want to take the time to message you back.
~ Sexual objectification is sexist, and I deserve better.
~ I don't like being referred to by nicknames I have not consented to, and view it as objectification.
~ I have stated that I'm not looking for sex, and people who don't read my profile before messaging me aren't interested in getting to know me, therefore I don't want to message back.
~You're messaging ME. Not the other way around. I would ask about you if I was messaging you. It's annoying to have people tell me to ask things about them, when I never showed an interest to begin with.
IF YOU DO IT ANYWAY:
~ I WILL message back in a snarky manner.
~ I WILL NOT be held responsible for any butthurt you may or may not sustain.
~ I MIGHT just ignore your message and never respond.