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am here because i cannot escape the desire for that something different within the mundane existence of vanilla life. Ive always loved the unusual, the different, and the fun that is adjacent to life yet very few people show an interest.

Ive been into bdsm since i was 16 though at the time didnt fully gr the concept until i was experiencing it first hand. Through my years so far i have been both submissive and Dominant in various situations.

I enjoy having a kitten follw me around at my pull of her lead. Seeing the glaze in her eyes as she chose to submit to me was the ultimate turn on and thus when i decided i was more a Dominant then a submissive. I have had other experiences which i will share with anyone who asks.

I think a quote commonly adjacent to the need for bdsm is The only way to remove temptation is to yield it. This is certainly true from my perspective try as i might to pull away, i crave it more.

Outside of bdsm i enjoy

Movies
Solitude
Reading
Mental Health
Writing
My top 3 fetishes are

Teasing
Cum denial
Begging
I will include my list of fetishes below, however these 3 i will be acting upon you should we meet providing of course your limits allow them. I understand submission is a choice and not a must. I am certainly looking for obediance but i despise people who give commands in an intimidating manner and do not consider the person who has chosen to submit to them.

Please feel free to message me. I am looking for friends mainly people who i can regularly talk to about things, and vice versa, that do not necessarily have to relate to bdsm.
flfun818
 
 Age: 45
 Raleigh, North Carolina