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| I am looking for someone who doesn't treat BDSM as something for the bedroom, but makes it a part of their entire existence. I'm fond of rules, and discipline above all else. I do not expect, nor want a doormat; any submissive of mine should be able to hold an intelligent conversation, and would be expected to have her own thoughts & opinions, but even if she disagrees with me, I'd hope that she would defer to my wishes to keep me happy, but will not enforce that except in exceptional circumstances. I am quite willing to handle any bratty tendencies she might have as well.
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Obviously a relationship like this requires a good foundation of trust to be successful, so I'm not expecting anyone to throw themselves at my feet after a couple of messages, and the control would develop organically over time, with clear communication on both sides.
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I also recognise that any long term relationship takes work on both sides, and for my part I am very caring, doing everything in my power to look after my partner, nurturing and protecting her from as much as possible.
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Physically I'd like a woman with a healthy shape to her, a few good curves would be no bad thing, and my definition of healthy is fairly broad, but if you're stick thin, or heavier than me, I'm unlikely to be attracted to you physically. That doesn't mean impossible though. Ideally you'd be no taller than 5'8", as I'd prefer you to be shorter than me even in heels. These are preferences however, not hard limits. I'm also not particularly averse to an age difference in either direction.
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Non-kink interests: Reading (I have 3 overflowing bookcases), weightlifting, movies, board games, rock music, nature (walking, camping, etc), among other things. I have kids, who live with me some of the time (in case this needs spelling out, I'm no longer involved with their mother), but that doesn't preclude the possibility of further children with the right woman in future.
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If you are interested in anything you've read here, please feel free to contact me
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Everyone talks about the autumn Daylight Savings Time change as an extra hour in bed, but for those of us with fairly rigid body clocks, it actually just means getting up an hour earlier, which can be a blessing or a curse, as we get an extra hour in the *day* |
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Findommes. Actually dominant or just spoiled brats? Discuss.
Personally, having spoken to a few girls who are exclusively about the finance, and rarely if ever meet their "slaves", I've come to the conclusion that most of them are actually submissive little girls who are in need of a spanking from Daddy.
Note that I'm not including experienced Dommes who have an actual relationship with a submissive that happens to include being lavished with gifts, that's a different dynamic. |
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