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BlackOrchid22
(Please note all Transexual, transgender or homosexual individuals, I am very clear about what I am looking for, and it is not going to change. I appreciate the compliments but please respect my desires like I respect yours.)



Update2015 The Revenge! edition



First things first If you have any sort of interest in me, great, however I have strict rules that must be followed if we are to -ever- meet. These are simple, reasonable requests that just about anyone in the modern world should be able to accomplish.



1. you must be able to back up who you are. Pictures, webcam and conversation is required



2. Ask questions. A lot of questions.



3. We should meet at a public, safe place for both of us. Starbucks coffee shops are the universal meeting place for this site.



4. Please respect my preferences, as I respect yours.



5. Chat requests are not evil, spam, or the devil. If you get one from me, its because I want to talk in a faster, more efficient way then mail-tag.



6. If you lose interest, or lack interest, LET ME KNOW RIGHT AWAY.





About me I have recently come back to the fetish community and found that the MarylandDC community is a massive improvement from the one in Chicago. I have been in the hobby since I was 21, and I have a particular love for restraints, enforced pleasure, enforced attire, and plenty of other wonderful kinks. Really what I like is finding what me and a partner would enjoy and rolling with that while exploring other kinks.





I have a zero tolerance policy on dishonesty. If you lie to me without good cause (Surprise birthday parties, etc.) it is over. Plain and simple.



I am employed in an industry that allows for a certain amount of flexibility. Thankfully it pays well.



I have removed my picture from this site for good reason. You will see me when we chat.



I am not an evil person and quite easy going and laid back. I believe we all have a life and if we are to get along and bond, we also need the freedom to live our own lives as we see fit. In the bedroom and everywhere else that is negotiated, ownership is absolute, but we will also be a couple, and boundaries must be respected. I really am not interested in poly environments.
6/5/2013 2:41:33 PM

I have new pictures but the site is refusing to let me upload them. If you want to see them, just ask

 

5/30/2013 1:28:46 PM

I believe that this site's purpose has long since been rendered moot. People come here looking for things that are utterly contrary to their profiles, and for a site that is supposed to champion communication...all we get is vapid, empty silence.

 

So to anyone who looks at my profile: If someone messages you politely, politely respond back, even if it's to say you're not interested.

 

I don't -care- if it is #57 of 63 messages.  You knew the job was dangerous when you took it. By not communicating, you are making the problem worse. 

5/27/2013 7:26:23 AM

Fucking amazing night at Neo with Cyn and Angelica.

 

Gotta go back there more often. 

2/12/2013 7:43:56 PM

For all of you on this site, some pieces of advice.

 

 

Advertising financial dominance is phishing, and also can be associated with prostitution, if I see you advertising it on your profile, you will be warned, made fun of, then reported. 

 

You will attract a LOT more eligible men and women by being polite and realistic in your desires. Acting like you own the world will result in being made fun of by unscrupulous characters like me.  

 

Every dominant should be prepared to answer any question a prospective sub asks, most importantly "What are you going to provide for your sub?".

 

If the answer is "Nothing", you are not a dominant, you are abusive. Know the difference.

 

If someone acts confrontational to your profile, you probably just met a real person.  Try and talk to them instead of acting like an idiot.  

1/8/2013 10:57:42 PM

Psst.. Hey Sara...

 

That was the first time I ever did that on web cam.

 

 

Congrats on being my 'first' ;)

1/6/2013 4:22:49 AM

So, long time in coming I am sure.  

 

I met this girl off of this site, and she is the first female I have met that deserves actual definition as an Adult.

 

Sara, you are really an amazing woman, I can't wait to see you!

10/14/2012 10:12:39 AM

Something I will never understand: Submissive profiles for people who already have a relationship.  This is a singles site, what's the point in advertising you're not single?

9/11/2012 6:30:43 AM

yeah... I remember eleven years ago...

9/4/2012 10:15:14 AM

Well, here is one for the "fucked up things that happened today"

 

An associate I worked with on an indie film wants me to do some erotic photography in a BDSM setting. 

 

 

 

7/1/2012 7:04:14 AM

With all due and proper respect.

 

It is very clear in my profile that I am a straight man. This, just as it is with any homosexual man, is not likely to change.  I appreciate the flattery for what it's worth, but please do not proposition me if you run contrary to my sexual preferences.

 

Thank you.

sublindsay
 
 Age: 21
 Washington, Washington D.C.