"...she bears the marks of his possession on her body, he has beaten her until her buttocks look like watered silk, to show how absolute is his right to use her flesh and the degree to which her flesh affects him by its insubornable seperateness from him." ~ The Sadeian Woman, by Angela Carter.

New to the scene, needing some guidance. I'm looking for friends, partners who can help me find my boundaries, and maybe a relationship. I know what I like, but I don't know how much of it I like. I'm definitely not looking for 24/7, but I am looking for some help exploring my submissive side. I'm eager to learn, and my school reports always said I was a conscientious pupil. I'm only really interested in real life interaction - I'd rather know people in the flesh, and IM just gives me the chills. I'm also unlikely to reply to anyone without a profile picture; I've provided one in order that you can judge me by appearances, so why can't you do the same? I'm a closet redhead, with (secretly) a violent temper to match, and anyone who can't at least make the effort to spell correctly will be ignored. When I'm not being spanked purple, I enjoy being wined, dined, and taken to the theatre.