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Pansexual Female Submissive, 52,  Western slope, Colorado
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 Submissive Female

 Western slope 


 5' 6"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Friends Only

 Lives For:




 Anal Play


 Breast Play





 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play


 Eighties Music


 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Musical Theater









 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play


 Knife Play


 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage


 Sensory Deprivation


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax play


 Board Games

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Puzzle Games

 Science Fiction

 True Crime

 Alternative Medicine





 Intellectual Discourse




 Lifestyle BDSM

 Alternative Music


 Classical Music


 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Punk Rock Music


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Curious About:



 Scuba Diving


 Needle Play


 Body Art





 Bar Hopping





 Hard Limits:



 Electrical Play

 Gas Masks


 Masks (Wearing)

 Plastic Wrap

Who am I?

I am forever learning more about myself and expanding who I am.

I am a submissive to men only.

I am to the outside world the neighbor next door. They have no idea what lies behind that smile and friendly wave as we pass each other in the street. Or of the long suppressed wants, needs and the things I hunger for that the vanilla world will never understand.

I would like to meet and develop a LTR relationship with aDom. One who knows who he is, what he wants and how to get it. One when the time comes will push my limits and help me to grow. Not an abuser but one that knows the power of mixing pain and pleasure, one who walks the thin line of respectful partner in the vanilla world and a Dom who with a glance or wordrelease my submissive slut no matter where we are. One who knows I am a pain slut that wishes to be used in many ways and have my limits tested and stretched while at the same time keeping me safe and protected. I dont consider theterm Daddydom to imply a weak Dom but rather one that who will help me grow, guide me, giveme structure in my life,stretch my limits, when necessary discipline meand use me hard.

Which am I a submissive or a slave? I used to say I am only a submissive and never a slave. But I have come to realize that the definitions for subs and slaves are very subjective and fluid.I now see themas beingon opposite ends of a continuum where I am not static. Some days I am closer to the sub side other days I have moved over to the slave side. No matter where I am along that line I want to Serve and Please my Dominant. I want my Dominant to listen to my thoughts and opinions but ultimatelyall decision will lay with him. Does this meanI want to be micro-managed? No, Do I need structure in my daily life? Absolutely, Do I want to be held accountable for my responsibilities? Yes and when I am not I need to be disciplined. Do I want to be able to completely trust my Dominant? To be taken care of and protected? Yes because only then will I be set free in my submission to him.

Please be respectful in your writings to me because I am not your submissive, slave, fuckmeat, cunt, pig, orproperty and I will be respectful to you. Also I would appreciate complete sentences as it makes it much easier to understand what you are asking or saying.

To those that have an issue with this please move on to the next profile and do not waste your time or my time.

Note if you request to be friends but we have never talked before I will reject your request.

Just to clarify I am not looking for incest play or regression to a baby play. Also I am not a little but I am coming to realize at times I am a middle..

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Journal Entries:
8/29/2017 8:08:30 AM
I apologize to those whom have emailed me and I haven't responded in a timely fashion because I have been very sick. To those who feel it necessary to insult and attack me because I didn't respond as fast as you think I should have to your emai, thank you for showing your true self. Please move along to another profile.

3/19/2015 2:08:23 PM
For Your Information...I am posting the following in regards to a number of emails I have received. 1) I am not interested in relocating nor am I able to relocate so please don't waste yours or my time by asking. 2) To Dommes I have no interest in abusing or humiliating your sub/slave/boy. 3) To male submissives I am not a switch and I am only interested in Dominant males. 4) To everyone I view profiles for a number of different reasons such has the profile name or main photo catches my eye. Sometimes because I am curious how others write their profiles. Sometimes because I am bored. Sometimes I will look at a profile again because like the pics or I simply don't remember I have seen it previously. 5) I am not going to respond to one word messages or statements. Nor will I respond to questions that I have clearly already answered in my profile.

3/7/2015 2:38:13 AM

== Results from ==

93% Bondage Receiver
93% Degradation Receiver
93% Submissive
88% Experimentalist
80% Exhibitionist
75% Non-monogamist
68% Masochist
67% Primal (Prey)
59% Girl/Boy
57% Primal (Predator)
50% Voyeur
40% Brat
38% Daddy/Mommy
36% Slave
36% Switch
29% Sadist
25% Master/Mistress
21% Bondage Giver
13% Degradation Giver
7% All-Rounder
4% Pervert
4% Vanilla
0% Brat Tamer
0% Dominant

7/24/2013 11:43:22 PM

Top 10 reasons to skip my profile 

  1. You can NOT communicate effectively.
  2. You can NOT be honest with yourself or others.
  3. You choose a sub/slave by their outside package instead of their mind.
  4. You are NOT disease free.
  5. You define yourself by your job/income/car etc.
  6. You have numerous pics of yourself on your profile or your main pic is a cock pic or you have a pic with you and your car.
  7. You can NOT write in complete sentences.
  8. You do NOT have a good sense of humour.
  9. You are a Domme, switch or sub male.
  10. You are disrespectful, insulting or demand to be called "Master" in your first email.

5/29/2013 9:26:28 AM

It is amazing to me how many people on CM are critical or condescending of other peoples choices in the lifestlye. 


Jeeze people..... Live and let live!!!

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