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GrimmSearcher

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Just starting out with a new sub, so I'm no longer looking. If you just have questions please feel free to still contact me. I’m a big believer that any BDSM relationship has to be based on communication and trust, and that a Dom has a solemn responsibility to make their sub(s) feel safe, protected, and cared for, even if it’s only for a session and not for a lifetime. As a Dom, I’m attracted to very feminine girls who are into being controlled in as many ways as possible, from outright restraints to orgasm control to pet play to forced shopping and everything in between. One of my greatest hopes is to someday find a girl submissive enough to be Dom'd by another sub under my supervision, but I recognize that might have to be a fantasy for a while. Before I get ahead of myself I want to be completely open about the fact that I’m happily married and devoted to my wife, so I am not looking for a long term lifestyle sub. There is one exception, which I’ll get to in a moment. In an ideal world my wife would be as submissive as I am dominant, but sadly it just didn’t work out that way. We’ve arrived at a sort of don’t ask don’t tell arrangement where she encourages me to fulfill my dominant needs, just not with her and without rubbing her face in it. As to that exception to being interested in a long term lifestyle sub, well my wife does have some dominant tendencies and an unexplored interest in being with another girl, so I do dream of finding that very special girl who is both my wife and I’s type and who is also interested in serving as our mutual house pet – but I have no illusions that someone like that will be falling into my lap anytime soon. I'll add that I’m always happy to help people new to D/s. So if I can help answer questions or provide a kind of second opinion to something you heard elsewhere please don’t hesitate to let me know.

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Dommededomme
 
 Age: 51
 Brisbane, Australia