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Jessica1000
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SubGurrl09
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| Holy cow ladies! How do you deal with all the crap flooding your mailbox?
It's ridiculous. I wont be contacting anyone on this site, but I will check it periodically. Look me up on the other site that starts with F and ends with etlife , same name.
Foremost, looking for like minded friends in a new town.
I'm looking for petite girls. Geeky kinksters. I'm looking for a newbie to train and guide. My sleeping beauty to claim. I eventually want a LTR with a 24/7 domestic, but that is a ways from now.
I started with Rope bondage and it is still my favorite aspect of BDSM. I make my own Leather and Metal toys, restraints and other tasty items.
I am a Prop/Special Effect/Pyrotechnic artist for a major entertainment company.
I have an insatiable curiosity about everything. I love to stay active and fit, and participate in my local SCA (I've also been fencing since the age of 12).
Please feel free to contact me.
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Finally moved to Florida after much planning. Im exited to meet new people. I bought and dyed some new rope, pictures to come soon. |
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Made a new paddle out of aluminum today. Surprisingly only took about an hour. New photo of it on my profile pictures.
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Collars. Like most of us, to me they are a symbol that means many things.
I finally made one last night.
for what it is and what it stands for, it came together rather quickly, and looks beautiful.
Sometimes i wish that the same could be said about the relationships that are formed by collars. I know, logically, this shouldn't be, but still a guy can dream.
Just had a short conversation with another on this site that is facing the same difficulty of finding a female sub in colorado.
There is a fetish party here in the springs close to where I live on the 28th that I will be at. Hopefully I will be able to meet more of the kinky community there. |
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So do you want the good news or the bad news first?
for your sake I hope you said the good news.
The good news is that not only am I learning and growing in my experiences as a person in this life style, I am also narrowing my expectations, needs and desires from a sub. I finished making my new restraints. I've been working with leather and metal for some time now, and only just made a custom set of cuffs (i realized the need for more than just rope at times.) The wrist and ankle cuffs are STURDY. Black leather, lined with fur, and locking. Yummy. I am currently crafting a matching blindfold that should be very effective. Im also almost finished with my new suede flogger. It feels fantastic.
so then on to the bad news so we can keep this short and sweet. I am not finding what I am looking for in a partner/sub/slave on this site, on other sites, or in real life. Im becoming very disheartened, though it would seem not disenchanted, with my chosen path. |
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I still haven't found what I'm looking for... |
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It's interesting, when I encounter someone in day to day life wearing the BDSM symbol. What is interesting to me is the reaction I tend to get when I comment on said symbol, or rather, lack of reaction. I don't say "OH HEY! I'm into BDSM too!" Simply, a knowing "I like your tattoo/necklace"
Today, I was in a bookstore. A young lady helped me find what I was after, and I noticed the tattoo on her arm of the symbol. I said "thank you very much, oh and nice tattoo by the way." My complement went un-noticed, and we both went our ways to continue on the day. After talking with a friend, we came up with many reasons this might have happened. She may have been in a hurry, and not registered my comment. She may have thought, "he knows what the symbol means, but nothing about the lifestyle."
still, the reaction is fairly common. I suppose I simply find the outward display of tattoos and jewelry as a wink and nod to the rest of the BDSM community, others may not, and prefer not to be approached. Any thoughts? I'd love to hear them. |
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a few new interesting developments in my search. Nothing has "landed in my lap" yet...but still...
Im having trouble finishing a new, fairly elaborate body and arm harness, I think I'm going to have to go by some longer rope. ^_^ ok I talked myself into it, now what color..... |
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I had to steal this. I wish I would have articulated it myself. Hope you enjoy it as much as I did.
Author Unknown.
I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be, dominant with all women. Yet to you, I am your Master. I am your Master only after earning your trust and embracing your submission. I have looked into your heart and mind and have seen your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You have told me of the needs of your heart, mind and body and given me access to your soul -- I accept that honor and responsibility. We are not equal. You are a woman, and you are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. I am a man, and have strength of body, mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you. Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are halves of a whole. We compliment each other, and together, are complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive and not to degrade you, nor is it degrading to you because you are as secure in your femininity as I am secure in my masculinity. We each recognize and accept our roles, worth and needs, as well as our desire to trust the other to fulfill those needs. You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in his strength, control and masculinity -- and in return, you present control of your heart, mind, body, and soul with unconditional trust, honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. I have listened to your words with both my ears and my heart, and by opening myself and my soul to you, I have earned your submission and trust. You have given me a treasure... you have given me dominance over you.What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest of gifts a woman can give to a man. You have given me complete and unwavering assurance of your commitment to me, and to us. Your submission is both a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility, one that I accept from you with both humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift -- that it is your body and soul, and your heart and mind. When you kneel before me, know that in my heart and in my eyes, you are raised above all woman and all treasures. What you give to me freely can not be bought, and that which circles and adorns your neck as a symbol of your ownership and commitment, so too circles and surrounds my heart. |
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I've been talking to many people, and discovering new and wonderfully erotic things every day. A few friends of mine have agreed to let me tie them up (completely nonsexual) so that I can practice a few more fancy and intricate things, in exchange for me teaching them the basics. Still have not yet found a suitable willing subbie that attracts me physically and emotionally. This town is proving to be smaller and more conservative than I originally imagined. I'm hoping she will fall into my lap soon enough. |
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Its a new year, and I have resolved to explore my fetishes more deeply, and to try harder to find others to share in the experience. My girlfriend is bi, and willing to play, but just not as into it as I am. |
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Im looking for a submissive or slave to play with. |
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| Age: 35 |
| Youngstown,
Ohio |
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