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Hetero Male Dominant, 49,  Youngstown, Pennsylvania
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So something in my profile caught your interest. I guess the first question is What are you here looking for? Do you seek a true escape from the endless requirements of life without direction? Does your neck feel uncomfortably bare without a collar that while it binds you, also frees and protects you? Do you desire, to the point of needing, someone to take not just control of, but responsibility for you?

If yes, then read further.

I am looking for a girl to take in and make my slave. I dont say this lightly or with the normal mindlessness that most pretend dominants here and other sites have. Im not looking for games. Im not looking for casual play, though I do engage in that from time to time. What Im looking for is the full Masterslave relationship. I have had it in the past. As to why I dont have a slave now life is. What this means is if I put my collar on you, you will be come my responsibility, not just my toy. You will be encouraged to explore things. Not just BDSM wise, but life wise. To find you niche. My current goal is to retire in five years, buy a good-sized boat, and sail to the Bahamas to retire. Well, semi-retire. Im a software engineer and a science fiction writer. I became both of those because I enjoy both. So I dont expect Ill completely stop either. But both can be done sitting on a boat in the middle of the Caribbean. You would be part of that plan.

As for what service to me will entail, first what most will feel is the boring part. Maintaining my house. Or boat when I get there. Most of those who are looking forget that part.

Sexual service is a given. I also have long experience in bdsm, and a fairly well appointed dungeon, so there will be active use in that manner as well.

I would like to find someone who is artistically inclined. Not a requirement, but definitely a plus. This would not only be something that would assist me on my retirement plans, but would also be something you could do to feel fulfilled without seeking an outside job.

The photos.

Primary is obviously of me.

The next three are of dungeon furniture I made. I include them not so much to show what I have, but that Im proud of what I created. They are obviously variations on types already made, but with my added twists.

The fifth one is of what it looks like a shoe-shine stand. That particular one used to sit in Station Square in Pittsburgh, Pa. Back when passenger trains actually stopped at that station.












 Dominant Male



 5' 8"

 190 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples

 Lives For:

 Domestic Service (Expert)

 Rituals (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Druidism (Expert)


 Renaissance Faires

 Camping (Expert)



 Hiking (Expert)

 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts



 Begging (Expert)

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Body Worship

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 You wearing my collar (Expert)

 Corsetry (Expert)

 Electrical Play (Expert)



 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Being Massaged

 Gags (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)


 Placing you on a leash (Expert)

 Medical fetish play

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Modern Primitivism (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Objectification (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing (Expert)


 Spanking you (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage

 Vibrators (Expert)


 Wax Play (Expert)


 Historical Shows

 Science Fiction (Expert)


 Astronomy (Beginner)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Philosophy (Expert)


 Psychology (Expert)







 Fine Dining



 Musical Theater





 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 G-spot Stimulation

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play (Expert)

 Foot Worship


 Housework Service

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Maid / Butler Service

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions

 Theatrical Scenes (Expert)


 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)

 Cooking (Expert)

 Archaeology (Beginner)

 Chemistry (Beginner)

 History (Beginner)

 Paranormal Phenomena



 Old Guard

 Vampirism (Expert)



 Erotic Hypnosis

 Plastic Wrap Bondage


 Computer Expert

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Journal Entries:
7/23/2017 7:45:42 AM
Long time, no journal.  But now I'm a bit bored.  Anyway, I now have a sail boat.  It's only a small 22' foot "cuddy-cabin" one.  It's call a "trailer-sailer" because it fits easily on a normal sized trailer and I can tow it anywhere.  Which means I'm going to be exploring a lot of the local lakes.  Already been out on Lake Eire a couple times.  This is a setting-stone to my final goal.  Currently I'm looking to retire in 5 to 6 years, buy a 40 to 60 foot power cruiser, and head down to the Caribbean.  I'm using this one to gain skills on not just sailing, but repairing and upgrading boats. 

6/6/2009 11:48:05 PM
Another excellent night at the local dungeon.  And we didn't even play!

We had put out that we were going to be at the dungeon for pony play if anyone was interested.  We had a couple nibbles so were pretty excited.  We got to the dungeon and shortly after that the two people who had shown interest made it in.  So we went into the back and pretty much everyone that was there in the dungeon that night followed us back.  Shadow Dancer and I wound up giving an impromptu class on pony play and basic dressage to them.  Only the two that we expected actually got up and tried what we were showing, but everyone there looked interested.  Since this was our first attempt and getting people out for pony play, we were very pleased!  We spent the rest of the night socializing with a few people.  Looks like we might get some interest going here in Pittsburgh!


5/31/2009 7:09:00 AM
Our local dungeon, Steel Sanctuary, had an event last night that we went to.  It was mostly a social event but we did get some good play in.  As I said in my last entry, she had started to discover her love of single tails.  She is a bit surprised by this, but I wasn't too surprise considering she likes cutting.  But we wanted to try something to increase the level of it.  So I had her ask two friends if they would like to join us in the back room.  All three of our first names start with "M", so we decided to call this the "MMM" treatment, as in "mmmmmmmmm!"

I had my girl strip and I locked her cuffs to her collar.  I then stood her in the middle of the area, and all three of us started hitting her with our single tails all over her body.  We went 'round and 'round making sure our whips went pretty much every where; back, ass, breasts, nipples, belly, cunt, and legs.  This went on for almost half an hour and she was loving every minute of it.  She finally buckled when we three hit her at the exact same time.  One was across her ass across two bruises she had from a caning at camp, the other was across her right breast and nipple, and mine was across her clit!  She orgasmed moments later coming off that pain.  And the sex when we got home was very intense!


5/31/2009 6:59:03 AM
Next I wanted to describe the final scene we had at Camp on Monday night.

We started off with single tail.  She had just started to discover how much she enjoyed it.  I tied her against a hexagonal "jungle-gym" with her back to me.  I then started using my whip up and down her back.  Slowly and softly at first but increasing in speed and intensity until her back was nicely striped and she was writhing against the bars. 

Then it was time for one of our favorites; cutting and cupping.  I took out a couple of my knives and started warming her up by running them all over her.  Then I carefully made six slits along her back, just deep enough to start to bleed.  I then took the vacuum cups I have and put them on her back, sucking her skin deep into them so the blood started flowing.  As the cups started to fill, I pulled out the knives she had given me for my last birthday and worked on her with those, forcing her through several orgasms.   Then as she was hanging from her arms panting from the sensations, I pulled the cups off, one by one.  I would clean the blood off her back with my tongue and then share the cup and my lips with her.  It was very intense!  Even more intimate than sex.  This is something we do that really binds us together.


5/27/2009 8:11:09 PM
Next up is the result of my auctioning off my slave kristyna.  I was pretty impressed with the amount she went for.  Not as much as some of those whom everyone knew well, but quite a bit more than average.  Considering she was on the injured list (bad ankle from the dressage event), I was very happy with the amount.  She was won by a team of two tops.  They usually work together.  When we told "Mom", the one who runs everything at Camp, who had won her, she said "Hmm... they're scary." 

So the time came for me to hand her over for the session.   We dressed her up as the virgin sacrifice (pictures on the way).  They took her outside to my portable suspension rig I had put up for something else.  They also brought out a spanking bench from the upper dungeon (camp has 2 big indoor dungeons).  They had her strip then knelt her on that and tied her to it.  Their slaves mean time laid out all their tools.  They warmed her up with a zipper on her breasts twice and cunt once.  Then they moved to more intense things.  Bundled canes, plastic canes, floggers to "let her catch her breath", single tails, cats and all sorts of other things.  She had stripes all over her back, breasts, cunt, and thighs.  And her ass had two large red spots.  Like I said, we have pictures coming soon. 

---  More to come ---

5/27/2009 6:38:21 AM
Just got back from Camp Crucible.  Was another great time.  Not as good as we had hoped, but ran into a problem that put a damper on things a bit.

We are very much into pony play.  In fact, we don't really call it "play" as it's part of who we are.  She is Shadow Dancer when I put the tack on her.  We have special boots for her made by Buck Boots (email if interested for details).  The base is a wooden hoof shaped base with a real horse shoe on the bottom.  Anyway, they had a dressage class this year and I entered my pony.   Everything was going perfect; she only missed two cues, but picked up the corrections immediately.  But right at the last gait transition, a strap gave way, her foot slipped off, and she severely twisted her ankle.  She insisted on finishing the event though(ponies can be stubborn!).  I allowed it since it was only a few passes at a walk, but the injury wound up forcing us to scratch from the main pony show.  On top of that, the judge for the dressage didn't award her the ribbon she had earned.  She gave the ribbons who had not done the course correctly or the gaits correctly.  (Before you read too much into that, keep in mind Shadow Dancer is my pony so she _always_ does better and is more deserving!)

For those unfamiliar with what a dressage wikipedia has a fairly good article:  Our course didn't have the outer "R, P, S, V" nor any of the centers except "X".  The novice class was simple gaits: Walk, Trot, Canter, Halt, Reverse.  The Advanced class included also Passage, Piaffe and Trotting  Half-Pass as well as a Canter on the wrong lead.  My girl pretty much aced everything in the Advanced class of course.  None of the other contestants could do the Passage and considering the two that "won" were wearing mocasins, that's kinda sad...

Anyway, since she had to scratch from the main Show on Sunday and she has extensive bio-hourse event judging experience, they asked her to be one of the judges, which she agreed.  It was a very good show.  Lots of new tallent.  So very good presentations with some very sexy ponies.  Dead Pony and handler put on another difficult and hilarious show that got it's inspiration from Young Frankenstein.

The finally pony event was on Monday, it was a for fun Speed Event that included Barrel Racing, Polebending, Keyhole, and Pony Express.  We only got to watch the last half of that, because the to tops that bought her at Auction on Saturday night had her scheduled for her abuse session *grin*.  But more about that in another entry.  The half we saw was great.  We're planning on entering it next year; this was the first year they had it.  It had one humerous/ dangerous incident.  One of the stalion ponies was racing back on the return leg of the Keyhole and his handler didn't start slowing him soon enough.  He tore through the starting gait at almost full speed and couldn't get stopped in time.  He wound up running _up_ the wall and tilted the cart all the way back.  It ended up with the cart wheels almost gently against the wall, the handler laid gently back on the floor, and the pony hanging by his hands from the cart poles!  Could have been bad, and they both got reamed for it, but in the end it was fun.

--More on Camp Later!--

5/17/2009 12:02:27 AM
Had another good night at the dungeon tonight practicing pony play.  Worked on a new gait for a bit then moved on to what we're putting together for the show at Camp Crucible.  We had this routine we had worked out listening to the music, but about 30 seconds into it I stopped her and told her it wasn't working for me.  So we chucked just about everything and started over.  The new one is working pretty good I think.  It's got some rough points but we'll be able to work it out by the time of the show easily.  Will definitely be setting some people back on their heels.  There are a couple areas where she is suppose to "free style" and I was pleased to see her using all the gaits I have been training her, including the new difficult "passage" one I taught her tonight.  If you've seen horses do the move, you might not think it that difficult, but with very heavy "Buck Boots" on, it gets very difficult.


5/15/2009 10:16:21 PM
We interrupt this regularly scheduled profile with the following new bulletin.....  It's almost CAMP!!!!  Not usually an excitable fellow, but this is something my girl and I have been going to for a couple years now and we intend to make it every year!  If you're curious, it's at  5 and a half days for bdsm heaven.  No shirt, no shoes, no problem!

5/10/2009 12:00:58 AM
I find I am reminded of a song by Alanis Morissette, Ironic. 

My girl and I went to the dungeon tonight to practice for Camp.  We have some new gaits we're wanting to incorporate into our pony routine.  When we got finished we started watching another friend of ours working on this good looking girl who we had seen a few times but never with anyone in particular.  The scene went from fairly tame suspension with wax, into more intense passes.  Intense painfully that is.  Our friend really started working her over and the girl was just eating it up.  Really getting into the pain.  It started going through my mind that if she wasn't attached, perhaps she's looking for someone(s) who could give her that regularly as well as the dominance she was looking for.

Then we heard our friend refer to this girls husband...   Gahhh... Isn't is ironic.

Anyway, it was still a very beautiful scene.  It ended with our friend putting a 5 minute hour-glass timer in the girl's hand and then caning her all over.   If she dropped it, time would start all over.  Everyone else around me, including my girl, was amazed she held it steady through the whole 5 minutes.  I wasn't .  I saw her go to the "happy place" that true masochists have.  She even looked the slightest bit disappointed when the last grain of sand fell through.  Intense.

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