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Gay Male Master, 54,  Virginia Beach, Virginia
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This is what I am seeking

Age weight heigh trace does not matter
No negotiation (Will experience)
Water sports
Domestic Service
Primal Sessions

Goal is to service to my needs not yours.

Anything else is waste of time - yours and mine.

I am grey I walk between the vanilla world and the dark world.

I am the portal to the deep depths of your imagination and desire.












Last Online:


 Dominant Male

 Virginia Beach 


 5' 6"

 175 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male

Switch Men

 Lives For:

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Enemas (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 Genital Punishment (Expert)

 Fisting (Expert)

 Foot Worship (Expert)

 Gags (Expert)

 Gas Masks

 Hoods (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)



 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Objectification (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Watersports (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Old Guard (Expert)

 Polyamory (Expert)




 Electrical Play

 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play  (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Sensory Deprivation

 Spanking (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions

 Wax play


 Hair Pulling

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Journal Entries:
3/25/2016 8:15:23 PM
Well just had a most stimulating conversation with a slave(?) on this site. After several missteps in trying to get the slave to text me its questions, it decided to do the only thing it could do - lash out online. After texting it, it continue to lash out and then decided to block me on this site so I could not respond with more than chat length responses. Shame it did not stop and consider its actions.

This is what I go through almost every time on this site. Out of over 50 contacts, only 3 have made it to the realm of face to face time. I guess my standards are too strict.

10/4/2013 5:25:15 AM

Every time I do a session or a scene or training I invoke " Denn Shar". I walk in places where others do not. I walk in places where others fear. I walk where my soul dies and is reborn restored and stronger. That is how far I go in my sessions, scenes, training or play with others.



8/25/2013 11:08:22 AM
Sadism - Masochist Scale

This rating scale is designed to help communicate levels of eroticism S&M players would like to participate in. This scale in no way co-signs abuse to people, or promotes real activity that violates human rights. It is against the law to abuse another human being. This rating scale explores what (if any) limits you have. The Scale reflects our views about each level of the scale.


5 - Curious (Looking Not Touching)

Usually someone who has fantasized about getting abused or tortured, abusing or torturing, or pain, submission, extreme erotica, or other S&M scenes would rate themselves here... this rating would indicate that you are more interested in talking about it, than doing it. Cyber Players should rate themselves as 5.

4 - Not All There (Once awhile, a serious ass kicking or very extreme session)

Limits are respected... they are not crossed... This is understood by both parties. Pain is still the goal, however the masochist needs to maintain some control here. the SADIST agrees not to harass the masochist into relinquishing limits... (discussions are okay). Masochist is either experimenting, or is very serious about limits. There are safe words given at this level. Very few SADISTS, unless versatile should rate themselves in this category. MASOCHISTS BEWARE... THIS RATING IN NO WAY INSURES YOUR SAFETY, OR THAT THE SADIST WILL NOT VIOLATE YOU ANYWAY.

3 - Disturbed (Gets off on pain and suffering)

Limits must be discussed here. The pain and suffering are the goal. Some limits will be focused on. Some limits will not be crossed without consent. It is, however, agreed the SADIST's desire to push masochist's limits should outweigh the masochist's fear of being pushed past such limits. SADIST will harass masochist to push limits, and will get off when a limit is overcome. Once the masochist agrees to overcome a boundary, it becomes the SADIST's right to eliminate the boundary altogether so masochists beware. Safe words are still used at this level. YOU ARE AN ADULT, SO THE CAUTION SHOULD BE SELF EXPLANITORY HERE...

2 - Twisted (Severe attitude adjustment!)

Limits are very few. Any body alteration, branding or other permanent markings will be discussed between SADIST and masochist. Facial blows would not be out of the question unless the participant declares this in advance. Blood will be shed. The pleasure of the SADIST is the goal here. There are agreed upon signals the masochist can give to let the sadist know he is breaking down. However, in level 2 the SADIST agrees not to go beyond this... DO NOT RATE YOURSELF AS A 2 UNLESS YOU ARE ENTIRELY SURE THAT YOU CAN TAKE/GIVE EXTREME PAIN, AND THAT PLEASURE IS GAINED FROM SEVERE SUFFERING.

1 - Insane (Notably crazy)

Very few limits - abuse is possible and likely. It is understood by SADIST and masochist that things like castration or consciousness, will be discussed before abuse begins. The masochist can give agreed upon signals to let the sadist know he is breaking down. The SADIST has the right to go beyond if he chooses. The masochist is just allowed the right of communicating his mental state. It is up to the SADIST on whether or not he respects signal. DO NOT LIST YOURSELF AS A 1 UNLESS YOU ARE VERY EXPERIENCED, OR KNOW FOR SURE THAT THE REASON YOU WERE PUT ON THIS EARTH WAS TO PLEASE A SADIST, OR TO PLEASE A MASOCHIST.

0 - Resigned (Please SADIST AT ALL COST)

Absolutely no limits adhered to. SADIST is completely and totally in charge... SADIST will respect no limits from the masochist. If SADIST does find masochist's limits, they will be exploited, disrespected, and completely abused by them. Let's be clear here... there are no safe words, no limits, no negotiations, no lists this is truly the sadist's world...DO NOT RATE YOURSELF 0 UNLESS YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING, HAVE LOTS OF EXPERIENCE, AND ARE COMPLETELY INSANE!!!

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