I am not "actively" looking. I find this site to be exhausting. I rarely message first. The person I would like to talk to would be inspired to write to me after reading my profile.
There are few real people here. I keep this profile in the hope that someday fate will smile on me.
I have been "into" BDSM since i was 21. My first exposure was a girlfriend who went to great lengths to please me. She was into BDSM but was afraid of scaring me off so she just dropped hints here and there.
Being a man, i was slow to connect the dots (smiles).
After i did, I discovered the beauty of the submissive woman. I think most (not all) women have a deep desire to be taken care of and to defer to a strong alpha male. I think alpha males, above all else, like to take care of the "weaker sex".
Slavery. I hear a lot of different views as to what a slave is. In today's world (in the western civilised world anyways) slavery is not truly "real". Slavery, at its base, is consensual. I also believe there is little difference between a sub and a slave to start. Slavery is simply a depth of submission. A woman may have a propensity to submit to that depth but she isnt truly a slave until someone "enslaves" her.
Why am i here? To pontificate apparently. Seriously I am not certain myself.
I would love to meet someone here but I am a realist. For now, i welcome chat from any gender , any age or orientation. I love to exchange ideas and build relationships.
I also offer my shoulder to cry on. I have met many wonderful submissive women who are simply abused by those who have less realistic views of what all this is and means.
I am a safe zone if needed. I dont have to play to be happy. I am open to play in some cases. I will not likely have intercourse outside of a committed relationship. I am open to spanking, bondage and scenes but i need a connection with you first.
Also, i dont particularly care if your a man "playing" as a woman here. You have a psychological need your trying to fill here. We all are really. I would prefer open and up front honesty. It goes a long way in filling your real needs. I am not gay but BDSM is not truly about sex is it?
That is enough for now. I expect to be made fun of belittled and otherwise disrespected but i will tolerate all that in the slight chance i meet a kindred soul here.
Be well. Be kind and be true to yourself.
No or hidden profile = no response from me.
A little word of advice in general, not just for here. If you desire a response from someone, ask them something. You shouldnt count on a response when you make short and non engaging statements.
"Hi" ":)" are examples of messages that do not engage. If you are going to message me....ENGAGE me.
2/27/2013 11:28:27 AM
This from a female "slave" profile:
"Im a fuckslut looking for a home. Im a college dropout and hoping to find somebody to take care of me"
Does anyone see what is wrong with this statement?
