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Married. Sapiosexual, funny, dominant to the core, but not a jerk about it. Experienced but not completely world weary. A very happy sadist. Extra points if you get the reference.
Looking for a part time, long term play partner and friend.
Some notes about sadism, taken from a message to someone here (thank you, someone, for asking)
In two parts, physical and mental.
It is a negotiation up front about physical damage to start with. What marks are acceptable, and where. How long they can last. Whether broken skin is a disaster or a matter for aftercare -- at least that. I am pretty scrupulous about that, although until hand or cane, flogger or feathers -- whatever -- has met bottom it is a matter of care and experience. No impact play near the kidneys. No caning of places that not well padded.
Pain is more interesting. Pain does not kill but can damage the mind and spirit. I am as careful as I can be about the latter. But I have no personal limit to how much pain I would inflict otherwise. Pain in discipline needs to fit the crime. Pain during sex or sexual activity can be an enhancer even for those who hate it otherwise. I am a fan of nipple play and less so of other kinds of breast pain. I like the impetus and emphasis that swatting a rounded bottom during sex adds.
Lets just say that I have very few hard limits of my own, that I am very careful about my partners hard limits, but will push every other limit.
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