I am currently planning on taking on a service oriented slave. I have no preference as to whether or not they are male or female. Active sex play would not be a part of the arraingment unless previously discussed and agreed to. I am not interested in a person who wants to provide a service for half an hour and then shag me.
This is not an arraingment that I need to set up within the next week. If it takes me a while to find the right person to fit in to my environment then so be it.
Beaware that I am not looking for a "MAID", though household maintenance would be involved.
This would be a mutual exchange. Provisions can be made for many different levels of training. Entrance, and introductions into the lifestyle will be provided once agreements have been reached. I am not into degredation, insults, or abuse or any type. This does not mean there would not be consequents to certain actions.
Contact me, and we can discuss whether or not a connection is possible.
Practice random acts of intelligence & senseless acts of self-control (unless told otherwise)
9/12/2010 9:18:50 AM
Heading to Cafe Baci, in Sarasota, tonight for dinner with a group of folks in the alternative lifestyles genre.
Should be fun. If your in the area stop by and say hi.
Will be there around 6pm, Sunday, Sept 12.
Leslie
3/23/2007 12:59:56 PM
Well...two entries in one day. I couldn't resist...I'd finally read one too many times..."everyone knows it is the submissive who truly holds the power". Please...I realize by commenting on this popular phrase there are going to be those who will insist on telling me that I know not of what I speak...and... they are right. Why? Because each individual creates their own reality. Which is why I get sooo tired of the "submissive is the one truly in control" line. Each person is in control. The dominant chooses to guide/punish a submissive. The submissive chooses to participate in a lesson/punishment. The dominant chooses to leave or stay. My! Look at that...a circle...reality (or as my Uncle loves to acclaim...H20...it all comes down to H20). So what does it come down to? Choices...each person makes the choice to participate or not participate. If an individual's right to choose is removed...then that is not a true Ds' relationship...it is not a chosen lifestyle...it is torture or abuse...and that is a true crime.
3/23/2007 12:41:24 PM
I have put little to no effort in a search for a dominant. So what happens when I begin to wonder if I am even interrested in such any longer? I am begin to meet people new people...not just those interested in the Ds' lifestyle but those whose interestes are eerily similiar to mine. OO...another idiom of my mother's comes true...when you stop searching...they will find you. Who knows if anything will come of these new friendships. The one thing I am certain will come of it is new friends, and wonderful new experiances.
9/4/2006 5:23:09 PM
It's been almost two years since I initially became interested the D lifestyle, and began getting familiar with different Dominants' in the area.
(laughing) I've spent more time, more research, and more consideration in wanting to find a Dominant then I ever have with any romantic associations.
The dominants I have met were either egomaniacl control freaks, said they were experianced when they really had less experiance then I have (which is about nil), said they were dominants when they were really just looking for bedroom play, or we simply did not click. I have also met many Domminants/Dommes who were extremely experianced and intelligent, showed a true concern for their own submissives or slaves, and were very pro on learning, and being informed. However, even meeting someone who could be considered a 1st class Dominant does not mean that we would be compatible, or even believe in the same things.
