To explain what i mean by mental domination, I want to explain how I arrived at such play. I am interested in exploring the power dynamics, especially within sexual relationships. I love the pulling of hair, spanking, forced gagging, bondage, etc. as much as the next dominate tilting play partner. But while exploring these enjoyable acts I often found the most arousing part were simply telling my partner what to do.

I began to train a beautiful sub of mine to follow verbal commands instead of being forced to do acts. Instead of tying her up while I use toys to make her squirt, I would place her hands on a stick and tell her not to move. Instead of gagging her with my cock by grabbing her head and forcing my cock down her throat, I would have her gag herself on my cock until she vomited.

This lead me down a whole bath of domination. I trained my sub to respond to my voice over the phone, and lead her on long sessions where she would listen to my voice and do exactly what I instructed her to do. With time this lead to me being able to control her orgasims and ejaculations (she was a squirter).

I had another sub that would complete assignments for me. I would critique her work and she would receive punishment and rewards based on how well she did.

These are some concrete ways that I have been involved in mental domination. It incredibly rewarding and is a constant mind fuck.