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I am new to the lifestyle, my experience so far has been fun and enlightening. I have come to a conclusion that a compete vanilla relationship is not for me. I am looking for someone who read all of this post, is interested and can take the time to reply back with more than a one line response. Why? Because to know me is a privilege and I do not put myself out there for everyone. Am I looking for a long term relationship or a playful friend type situation? Open to both right now or maybe it is just better to say let things evolve, as they will. Just to make sure there is a clear understanding on both ends, it is your job to inform me of what you are seeking at this time or it will not work. As you read this, it might seem a little tame or middle of the road. Even though I am recent to the lifestyle. I do have a natural Dominance about me with a gentle side to compliment it. I seek someone who's local to the area (comfortable, independent and secure in their vanilla life) that, like me, runs in the opposite direction away from unnecessary drama. The perfect sub is my age or younger and knows they are submissive, enjoys performing in that role, to explore and discover what we jointly find interesting, rewarding, and arousing. Also, be open to exploring unknown areas, uninhibited and not a doormat, I do need some spunk in you. Shape is more important than weight. Most all women have beauty and it is how it is carried but I do prefer 5' 7" and under. Not a heavy make up fan so a closer to natural look is also a plus. Now your obedience, attitude, cleanliness, enthusiasm and acceptance to my world will definitely increase my desire. Also, intelligence is a strong aphrodisiac. Some of the things that I have found to turn me on are mental control (with humiliation as a training tool) collaring, servitude, obedience, objectification, bondage and discipline (especially spankings) as needed. I would consider it more of a kinky but nurturing environment as I am not into scat, animals blood or extreme pain or leaving heavy marks as my subs body is for visual enjoyment as well and I appreciate a natural unmarked beauty of it. Eventually I would like to consider having another female joining us on a semi regular basis so if you have switch tendencies that will be fine as long as you are submissive to your Dom. That is a good bit to expect but I do realize the offer of true submission is a gift to be treasured with the good and bad that happen in life being shared to create a strong trusting relationship being long term or friends. There is also a recognized difference between fantasy and reality so as being a friend and lover of a dominant nature it would never be asked to put me before your career or family to satisfy my own pleasure. With that out of the way, a little about me. In a nutshell I am a sarcastic gentleman and a pervert at the same time. But wait, there is more!! I am kind, open minded and slightly reclusive but do like to go out occasionally. If you are more outgoing in your vanilla life, that does not bother me and we can work that out. I do like outdoor activities such as camping and want to get back into that so a similar interest there is a plus. I believe in KISS (keep it simple, stupid) meaning I live a modest life and within my means. I am not rich or poor and make do with what I have or can get by with. So how do I look? At 41, I stand about 5' 10" with a little extra weight. Yes about 25lbs of mid age bliss, a factor I need to work on. Have all my teeth and all my hair. Brown eyes, brown hair (with some grey). In the vanilla world I have been called attractive as well as cute and dated some attractive females. I may not turn heads to my direction but never turned them away in disgust. Of course all of the previous mentioned is in the eye of the beholder and everyone has different tastes. I am also very private, so I do not post pics. I do not mind sharing one at a later time when we communicate further. I do smoke, willing to quit but need the right release mechanisms, hmm a sub's project for me. Also at my age and time in life, I have chosen not to have children. If you have one, I can appreciate that but for LTR possibilities I know I am not comfortable with more than one child. Wow, I wrote to fucking much just to say I am looking for the key ingredient, a sub, to be that spice added to the meat and veggies for dinner. Let me give you a nice virtual pat on the head for making it this far and yes, you have my permission to agree that I wrote to fucking much as well. Anyways, the ball is in your court, for now. So if interested drop a line and I would at least be interested in a "no expectations" talk and possible meet.

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Slave4Mistress01
 
 Age: 26
 Canada