Hello, everyone.

I have to admit up front that I have almost no experience at writing profiles about myself. I also don’t have that much experience in meeting people online, so if I make some internet faux pas and insult half the people here I apologize in advance. Oh and while we are on the subject of apologies, yes I know the picture is HORRIBLE but it is the only one I had on hand. It is from my university days.
I am a graphic designer. I will be moving to London in a couple of months. I am an extreme minimalist and find it is the best way to live my life. I spent my childhood in a house crammed with stuff and hated it. I felt so claustrophobic! I now feel so relaxed and comfortable. My one exception is books. I love reading and have a huge library.

I have been into BDSM for a while and have thought about it for a lot longer than that. I have a great deal of experience in a number of areas like bondage, humiliation, objectification, chastity and TPE. I find myself somewhere in the middle. I like a certain level of control, however I don’t like having to tell you how many bites of an apple you should have or what color socks you should wear.

I would like to find someone who is willing to push and be pushed. While I am far from timid and limited in my fantasies, I find myself drifting more and more to the extreme side of things. I have a number of very, very extreme ideas and desires that I have begun to explore but only in their beginning stages and hope to go further.

I keep myself in decent shape; I row and practice martial arts. By no means am I anywhere near a peak fitness specimen, however I am fit and healthy and would expect anyone I meet to be the same. I am also very highly educated and well read and while I wouldn’t expect everyone in the world to have ten doctorates, the Pulitzer Prize and an encyclopedic knowledge of world wines, being able to hold a good conversation is a definite must! It is my one and only deal breaker. Just because I may force a gag into your mouth sometimes, doesn’t mean that I don’t enjoy what comes out of it the rest of the time.

I think that’s all I have to say. As I said I am not used to or very good a filling out these profiles. Just a note of warning; I tend to be rather blunt, so if you get a message full of questions from me, even if you are not even remotely looking for someone like me, don’t take it as an insult or just assume I am coming on to you like so many other people seem to on this site. It is just about learning and getting to know people. From what I gather lots of people here tend to just send out messages like resumes to everyone of the opposite sex irregardless of what their profile says they are looking for!

Well, I think that’s a long enough rant about me, I hope to hear from you soon.