So after a few attempts at being social and browsing some profiles in my area i've learned a lot about the BDSM community. I think it's hilarious how many creepy old guys are trying to get a foot in the door with the cute but young enough to be their daughter - girls on the site. I am still very new to the concept. When I think dominant I don't see myself barking out orders telling you to bend over, or trying to tie you up to furniture. I am content enough in my relationship with my partners knowing that I am always top priority in all situations, the boss, the one in charge and that when I want something I can say it with a look or a gesture. *shrug* I am not too into theatrics but I do have a bit of an interest in puppy play and love the concept. I would love to meet people involved who can share experiences and maybe give me a few pointers. With that said I could use plenty of advice on how to run a polygamous triangle. This will be my first attempt to introduce a third, and however welcomed she will be if we ever find here - I know it's going to be a long road of trial and error before we get things right.