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I am a professionally-employed, switch, nice Jewish boy, stoner (edibles) goth. I can be deadly serious or seriously funny; it's up to you.
I guess I should update this thing given that I forgot about it for the last 3 years. Guess I've been busy (unfortunately, not that kind of busy).
I'm primarily attracted to women who considerably less than me. I'm a guy. I work out. I weigh 155. That means women under 140. That doesn't mean I won't hang out with heavier women -- I dance with quite a lot of them at PEERS/Gaskells/Dickens Fair, but it does mean romance is quite unlikely.
I am also attracted to smart women -- the smarter, and snarkier, the better. To me, geekdom does not mean you hit level 33 on some video game. It means you actually know how to discuss history, art, politics, science, etc. (not necessarily all of those). On the other hand, if you like me and just want to do things (help me herd my cats, go dancing, play music (I play guitar, write music and lyrics, and have enough stuff for a full band), that's great too.
I'm not really into casual fucking in the same way that I'll grab a slice of pizza (or something healthy) when I want a bite -- in this sense, I'm almost female-like in that I need set and setting, and being INTP, that usually involves some amount of alcohol or cannabis (but not both), as well as something scented (apple-cinnamon is great, as is mulled wine, etc.), mood music (usually ethereal or something lush), that kind of thing. It's not for every woman, but I'm not looking for every woman.
I've yet to see a woman in traditional fetish gear who looks more exciting/entrancing/stunning/motivating than one in a formal 18th or 19th c. dress, particularly if it's taffeta and has lots of bows.
My primary photo was taken 3/10 at the PEERS evil faerie ball in San Mateo. I designed my outfit and had a friend make it. :-> Heels (1.5") actually make it easier to dance - keeps you on your toes.
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Went to S.F.'s "Bent" last night - play party at the Citadel for the under-40 crowd (and those over 39 who look under 40). The theme was renn-ish and so people did dress up. I had my Gallery Serpentine frock coat, custom Dark Garden waist cincher (i.e., chick magner ;->) silky/lacey shirt, gothic top hat (duh), black opera gloves, pointy boots, cravat, you get the point. Here's the thing. I am an INTP on the Briggs-Myers (Myers-Briggs?) test. Look it up if you don't know. I am very I and hardcore N and T. I am also a mildly prudish libertarian. In other words, I'm vulcan. Alcohol helps moderate those tendencies, but it's THC that changes me from an INTP to an ISFP. That is when I have a much better erotic sense. Unfortunately, I don't really want to be around a bunch of naked, or half-naked, men when I'm stoned. That's due to being submissive and really enjoying female company. So I'm fucked up, LOL -- hey, can I criticize myself? (Also, see last post under heading "too much".)
Also, I seem to have an admirer. Wow. I'm flattered. Now, if I had a few local female admirrers, and they forced me to do all kinds of things.... |
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File this under: "oy vey". Last night I had a girl I know over and we were listening to her electro-house tracks -- she DJs. I must say, while I primarily listen to goth and metal, it was quite good. Very hypnotic. Problem is, I got *too* high from hash oil & a cookie, and what we'd kind of planned to do, didn't happen. I was waaay out of it. After awhile she left. I have to apologize and make it up to her in a more sensible way. What a shame. |
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This is my first journal entry on Collarme. Thanks to joining Collarme, Peter Gabriel's song "Sledgehammer" has been going through my head for days now. Let's just say, not my favorite. Anyway, I'm tempted to go into a chatroom, but for now I'm going to stay outside. Sleeeeepy. |
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