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Hetero Female Dominant, 36,  Southshore, Massachusetts
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Not a ProDomme or Play Domme! I am a Lifestyle Domme and I expect communication daily and for you to be emotionally available and committed. (Friends first). I am not in this to be around when you are available. This is daily.

Welcome to My profile. My name is Goth Mistress Hayley. If you are looking at My pics, yes, I am in head to toe leather with a snake crawling on Me... CS flipped the pic when I uploaded it. Cest la vie. I love to be outgoing and enjoying everything life has to offer. We dont know how long we are going to be here, so we might as well go out with a bang. Creating something with my own hands or sharing my ideas with someone who can brings Me much joy as well. My dream is to become a teacher of spirituality. I seek 2-3 subs. I believe in the supernatural, occult, magic, psychics, mediums, angels, demons, etc., and it is important to Me that anyone that enters My life is open-minded to it too. Those that I choose to play with is not on a whim. I am friends with My pets first. If we cant just spend time together as humans, then it wont work for Me. I may be a lifestyle Domme, but I believe in keeping My subs human have a life, job, education, friends and family. They deserve love, respect and dignity, which is why I will NEVER per verbal humiliation or degradation or acts that risk their health. Any subs desiring consideration must be disease-, drug- and alcohol-free, be between 26 and 40, bi-sexual, bi-willing or bi-curious, and be willing to relocate if they are at a distance. Daily communication is key. I seek a strong emotional, mental, physical and spiritual bond with My subs. If you are emotionally unavailable, this will not work. I am a firm believer in CFnm (Clothed Female, nude male). Favorite kinks include, but are not limited to forced bi, anal play, cbt, flogging, bondage, foot worship and medical play.

I am NOT into spitting, face slapping, verbal humiliation or degradation, trampling, ball kicking, ball-busting, castration, watersports, scat, cross dressingsissy play beyond a black thong (emasculation is a different thing), or diapersbaby age play.

If you have read My profile thoroughly, please include Thank You GMH and a photo in your first message. No photo means no response.











 Dominant Female



 5' 3"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Male slave/sub

Switch Female

Switch Male

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Clubbing (Expert)

 Flea Markets

 Movies (Expert)

 Renaissance Faires (Expert)

 SCA (Expert)

 Tying you up (Expert)

 Collaring you (Expert)

 Corsetry (Expert)

 Enemas (Expert)

 Eye contact with me is not permitted (Expert)

 G-spot Stimulation (Expert)

 Penetrating your rear (Expert)

 You massaging me

 You at the end of my leash (Expert)

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism (Beginner)

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Dominating you with a strap-on (Expert)

 Cartoons (Expert)

 Horror Movies (Expert)

 MMORPGs (Expert)

 Online RPGs (Expert)

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Alternative Medicine

 Aromatherapy (Expert)

 Astrology (Expert)

 Body Art

 Candle Making (Expert)

 Cooking (Expert)

 Meditation (Expert)

 Singing (Expert)

 Paranormal Phenomena (Expert)

 Female Sovereignty (Expert)

 Goth (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Old Guard

 Industrial Music

 New Age Music

 Rock Music



 Modern Paganism (Expert)

 Reiki (Expert)


 Fine Dining






 Horseback Riding


 Keeping you permanently locked in tamper evident chastity

 Disciplining your private parts

 You being my domestic servant

 You kissing my feet (Expert)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Complete control of your orgasms

 You worshiping me with recitations and rituals

 Treating you like my butler

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Role Playing



 Arcade Games (Expert)

 Board Games (Expert)

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Science Fiction






 The Occult


 The freedom to pursue romance and intimacy with other men while you remain passionately faithful and devoted to me


 Vampirism (Expert)

 Alternative Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Heavy Metal Music



 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries

 Bird Watching


 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera


 Musical Theater



 You begging

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 You worshiping my body

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Giving you corner time facing the wall

 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play


 You doing all of the housework

 Going to munches

 Treating you like an object

 Outdoor Bondage

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play

 You needing permission to speak (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage

 Tickling you while you're bound

 Wax Play

 Online Chatrooms

 Romance Novels

 Simulation Games

 True Crime

 Web Surfing

 Art Collecting



 Online Auctions


 Soap Making











 Victorian Lifestyle

 Country Music

 EMO Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music




 Curious About:

 Erotic Hypnosis



 Gas Masks


 Masks (Wearing)


 1950s Lifestyle

 Hip Hop Music





 Hair Pulling


 Hard Limits:

 Breast Play




 Sensation Play

 Oral Service



 Computer Expert

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Journal Entries:
1/20/2017 10:13:34 PM
Just updated My profile to include more about who I am as a person and My interests. I'm excited :)

9/6/2016 9:20:43 AM
Who wants to be My birthday present to Myself today? :)

7/15/2016 9:35:55 PM
Still seeking. Come message Me :)

6/18/2014 3:45:53 PM
I have now officially scared off girls too. I feel like I am a ghost today. Lol

8/4/2011 9:25:12 PM

Wow... I must be scary. I was chatting with a boy from CM. He asked Me to dare him, so I did. I dared him to take a pic.. he signed out of yahoo and deleted his CM profile.


Do you think I'm scary? :)

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