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Profile updated - 24 April 2016.
I have not been on here much over the past nine months but I am now trying to visit it more often again and I have updated my profile.
Please note I do not chat on this site, if you request to chat with me it will be declined, although I am always happy to exchange messages 
I have been on here quite a few years now, I also have a profile and more photos on FL under the name of ‘Gothian’.
I am a bi-sexual male with a quiet shy personality; I am friendly, genuine, honest and a non-smoker. I live on the Fylde coast, Lancashire. I like the Goth scene although my Goth appearance is restricted to clubs / private events and play sessions if requested.
I am looking for a long-term play partner / friend that I could see on a regular basis; I am also interested in casual meetings.
Please note that I do not own a car therefore I use public transport.
What I seek
For a long-term play partner / friend, a bi / bi-curious or gay male (single or married) in their mid/late 20's or in their 30's particularly those who have very long hair or a Goth or EMO appearance. I have a fondness for slim males with smooth skin and girly or effeminate looks especially those who cross dress (schoolgirls, sluts, maids, bimbos or nurses). Although I prefer males I am not gay, I have a female friend in the background so I am not seeking a long-term female play partner.
For casual meetings I am happy to play with males or females (single or married) from the age of 18 upwards (i.e.: Uni / College students). Females should again be bi /bi curious with a Goth or EMO appearance although this is certainly not a requirement. I do like ladies in to their 40’s, I also like girls 18 – 25 with a bit of puppy fat on them although not overweight, however casual fun with males will always be my first choice.
As well as Caucasians I am also quite interested in Chinese, Japanese, or half-caste people.
When playing together I like to explore each other's fantasies, push our boundaries and expand our experiences. Play is to be sexual as well, "pain and pleasure". As you can see I like younger play partners, I am not a sugar daddy and no gifts or money will ever be exchanged, we play because we both wish to have fun or we don’t play at all.
Bdsm interests
I like to love switch when playing although quite happy to be submissive. I should make it clear that I am not a Dom and never will be.
My general bdsm / fetish interests are listed at the bottom of the page and I am open to new suggestions, I love everything to do with spitting and pissing during a play session, the kinkier the better. I am not interested in anyone who is into cbt, chastity, diaper/nappy play, medical play, needles, blood, scat or anything that will cause permanent damage.
Sexual interests
These days I am submissive therefore I will be the one doing the cock sucking. I will not fuck you but you are more than welcome to fuck me. I am happy you to give a facial if requested.
Playtime
I am free most days or evenings throughout the year and I can accommodate. I should add that 100% cleanliness is essential at all times. I would not play with anyone who is a smoker or under the influence of alcohol / drugs’. I like to take photographs with my play partners (although faces will not be shown if requested). I am quiet when playing and I don’t play in clubs. I will never call anyone Sir or Madam or grovel at any Dom's feet (male or female) even in private, if you expect that then look elsewhere.
Clubs and Munches I have visited
Munches: I regularly attended the Preston munch 2007 – 2013, however due to other commitments I nolonger attend munches. I also often went to the Blackpool, Fylde & Wyre munch until that finished as well as the Lancaster munch. At munches I have always found everyone is friendly and very welcoming to new people.
Clubs: Visits to clubs are now in the past I have been to ‘Club Lash’ (Manchester), ‘Afterlife’ (Preston), ‘Spankd’ (Cheshire) and more recently “Beyond Bizarre” (BBB after Party) in Birmingham. I also occasionally go to the "BBB"
New friends
By going to munches and clubs also by making contact on IC/CM & Fetlife I have met many people since 2007 some of which have now become friends. I do not like to lose touch with people who I have met including those I have played with. Those that I have lost touch with are always welcome to mail me on here if you would like to get back in contact or meet up again, life is too short not to have fun together.
Messages / Chat
I only contact someone if I am genuinely interested in them. If you contact me and I am not interested I would let you know. Also if you contact me and you have no face photos on your profile I will ask you to email a few to me, if you are not prepared to send any please bare that in mind before contacting me. I am always quite happy to send you face photos.
I will occasionally contact males whose profiles may indicate they are straight as I have discovered that quite a few males who give that impression are in fact “bi” (but for various reasons they don't advertise the fact). If you are also unsure about your sexuality or "bi-curious" and wish to explore those feelings then I hope I can help you discover that "bi" is fun. It does not matter if you are single or married my view is that we are only here once so go for it!
I am not interested in any on-line friendships, relationships or play. I am interested in meeting you as a person. I like to meet within a couple of weeks of us first contacting each other.
Play interests/Fetishes
Top / bottom to men ....... Top / bottom to Women ....... Friendship with Men ....... Men who cross-Dress ....... Men with effeminate/girlish looks …… Men who wear makeup ......
Chinese men … cross-dressing (men) ... emo … emo students … Goth & gothic … Gothic students … … horny uni-students … men with effeminate/girlish looks … men with long hair … men with pony tails … Japanese girls … Japanese men …men who wear makeup …
Boots … converse all-star trainers ... doc marten boots … fishnets …. new rock boots … over the knee socks
Belts … buckles … cat suits … cheerleading uniforms … collars … fetish wear … football kits … latex ....... leather ....... maids uniforms … nurses uniforms … piercings … pvc ... rubber ... school-room ... school girl uniforms … skirts … sluts clothing … straps ... studs ... transvestism … zips
Affection ... being together … caressing … cuddles ... hugs … kissing … snuggling
Bare bottom spanking … belt spanking … blindfolds … bondage … dildos … flogging ... gags … gay bondage … handcuffs … hot candle wax play ... master/slave … open air play … pain … pin wheels ... rope bondage/suspension … scratching ... shackles & chains … spanking … strap-ons … switching … tickling … tit slapping … toys … whips … vibrators Anal sex ... ass play … bisexuality … blow jobs … breasts … bukkake … cock sucking … cum … erotic photography … face fucking … felching … female ejaculation … fingering … gay sex … golden showers … hand jobs … masturbation … men sucking cock … mutual masturbation … nipples … oral sex ... penetrative sex ... pissing … open-air sex ... rimming … sex … sex in cars … snowballing ... spitting ... swallowing … threesomes (or groups) … touching … water sports … vibrators … wartenberg pinwheels.
I am also curious about: Breast & nipple torture, caning, cling film, collar & lead/leash, duct tape, hair pulling, hoods, masks, puke, snot, suspension, vomit.
Complete turnoffs and a definite no to meeting
• Very short hair or shaved heads
• Beards
• Hairy pubes (fully shaved or very well-trimmed please)
• Bad manners and disgusting personal habits.
• Anyone that have no respect for others
• Unclean people
• Anyone who is constantly texting, talking or playing with their mobile phones etc. while in my company – it's extremely rude.
Interests outside kink
Music: I like Indy, Gothic, Cyber, Industrial, Punk / New Wave and Progressive music including: • Deathstars • Marilyn Manson • Placebo • White Stripes • My Chemical Romance • Ailen Sex Fiend • Blondie • Siouxsie and the Banshees • The Stranglers • Art of Nosie • OMD • Ultravox • The Beatles also George Harrison & John Lennon • David Bowie • Pink Floyd • The Who. Unfortunately at present I am completely out of touch with the music scene.
Photography, travelling, good food; cooking and a decent pint of real ale.
Other bits
Eye colour: Blue
Hair colour: Blonde/grey
Height: 5' 10"
Weight: 12 stone (168 lb)
........ and finally, my age. I never give my age although I am over 50. Don't ask me as I will not tell you, even those I have played with have never asked.
Hopefully I look forward to hearing from you soon.
Gothdeltic / Gothian
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