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| Call Me GD or Goth. I'm a Goth/Poly/Dominant.
I'm a father of three beautiful children. They live with their mother, who I was married to for 5years. I am divorced.
I currently have a live-in g/f who is a learning submissive. She is not poly, but is poly-friendly. Makes things a little more interesting, and difficult, at times, but it's worth it.
I'm a lifetime Dominant. This means that I am a classically trained Dominant that has been practicing My whole adult life. I'm very traditional and have even been called hide-bound and arrogant. shrug I try not to pay too much attention. I will admit that I am a very different sort of Dominant, with very different ideas and ideals, than those you will find. Others with the same views and beliefs do exist, they are just very rare. I'm Old School.
At present I'm looking for a service slave for our household. This would be a live-in situation. Obviously negotiation of duties, both mundane and sexual, would be necessary. As would a contract. Primary duties would include house cleaning.
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You want to know what I want?
Yeah!
I want a slut. I want a wanton, craven, sex addicted cocksucking machine that can't get enough, because I can't get enough. I want a girl who doesn't EXPECT anything but desires everything. You want me to buy you clothes? I'll buy you clothes, but they'll be the clothes I pick out, and you'll wear them all the damn time. If I buy you high heels and a collar, THAT is what you'll wear unless I tell you different. And in return you'll do every last thing I say when I say it. If I want chicken cacciatore, you'll find a recipe and you'll MAKE chicken cacciatore and when I get home you'll be naked on your knees by the front door where I'll fuck your mouth till I cum and then you'll SERVE ME chicken cacciatore. After that I'll fuck your ass, not because I said so but because you asked for it, BEGGED for me to fuck your ass.
I want all that and then the next night when we go out for a nice dinner with my boss and his wife you will be pleasant and mild and carry on a normal conversation in a civilized manner. Even if I slip you a note to go to the bathroom and put a plug in your ass, you'll do it AND keep your cool AND get me through the night without hurting my reputation.
I want all that and I want a woman who will see it in my eyes when I'm in pain, sooth me, comfort me and make it bearable just by her presence. And when I feel better, and I'm beating her ass purple, she'll smile and close her eyes, content in the knowledge that she made it better.
THAT... is what I want.
(written by, and used with permission of, MalcolmD) |
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I'm rather confused. I think I missed a memo somewhere.
Am I just that much of an ugly, wierd, freak-of-freaks or is there something else going on?
There seem to be a fair number of female submissives of the variety I'm looking for on this site. Ones who claim to be actively looking for a Dominant. Ones that claim to be actively seeking a DaddyDom even. All of them claiming to be "Willing to Relocate". This would signal to Me that I would be, at least, an interesting party to chat with, at least once. If for no other reason than to eliminate Me from the pool. Since I've gone out of My way to try and send messages to every girl that seems even peripherally interested in a male Dominant with My interests and tastes, I have to conclude one of two things:
One - That I am an ugly, unattractive, slobbering troll of a human that none of these ladies finds the least bit appealing and therefore don't even take the time to look at what I have to say.
Two - That the greater majority of the females on this site are nothing more than camgirls and porn site BOTs.
Anyone got any other ideas? Anyone out there? Hellooooooooo?? |
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So, a little more clarification about some of the things I'm looking for. I haven't recieved any questions, but I anticipate a few. The first one being about the "Actively bi-sexual" comment.
There is a real problem with being polyamorous and male. There is a very real double standard. When I don't have a long-term partner, it's not much of an issue. Mostly because the women you meet don't think much about it. They figure that they can get around it or change your mind, if they don't much like the idea. So, it's no harder to meet girls, as long as you are single at the time. On the other hand. If you have a long-term relationship at the time, then it becomes almost impossible to meet anyone else. Women are instantly suspicious of a guy who trys to "pick them up" once they find out he has a girlfriend. And no amount of explaining will help. Even having your girlfriend explain that it's all good with her doesn't help. Most girls figure the guy has brainwashed her or something to that effect. This is why having an ACTIVLEY bi-sexual girl is important. Women don't have this problem. Guys could care less about the Poly thing (they get to fuck a sexy girl and don't have to worry about strings?! Sounds good!), and bi-girls totally understand the poly relationship dynamic, almost instinctually. Does this mean that every girl your girlfriend meets is going to be willing to sleep with you too? Hell no, but the odds increase with every girl your girlfriend meets. It seems to be exceedingly rare to find girls (bi-sexual or not) who are willing to believe a guy when he tells them that he's REALLY polyamorous, and so is his girlfriend, and that it's totally ok with her. Thus, the ACTIVELY bi-sexual requirement. |
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| Age: 25 |
| Leeds,
United Kingdom |
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