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I'm an American, currently planning a grand trip of Europe. If all goes according to plan, I should be in Amsterdam for a week in six months or so.
Obviously that rules out any kind of long-term relationship with anyone in Amsterdam. What I'd like to try to find is a travel companion, someone to show me around both Holland and the Dutch BDSM scene. Perhaps someone's couch to sleep on. And, of course, someone for some pretty awesome sex while I'm staying over there =)
I play safe. No condom, no sex.
I'm very much into anything requiring me to be on my knees. Boot worship, anything to do with leather, being led around on a leash while on all fours, as well as the more obvious thing to do in such a position.
I'm super into humiliation, getting roughed up during sex, and generally being insulted in a sexual context. Nothing makes my heart melt like being called your bitch.I love being restrained during sex. Chains, cuffs, ropes, it's all awesome. I've never had the opportunity to try suspension, but I'd love to if given the opportunity.
I'm only a mild masochist, but I'm willing to push my limits with someone I trust. I know that spanking doesn't work for me- at all, it kills arousal faster than anything else I've found- but I do like other thuddy impact play, CBT (especially ball kicking, mmm), and wax play.
I enjoy cross dressing and generally being turned from a man into a cock-hungry whore, but it's not something that I have to do to ejoy myself in a sexual encounter.
And of course, I like pretty much anything to do with shoving foreign objects into my ass for an extended period of time. Though Ido prefer to keep them relatively managable so I don't get too stretched out for real cocks.
Outside the lifestyle, I usually devote myself to the life of the mind. In the intellectual realm, I'm particularly interested in philosophy, economics, political science, queer and feminist theories, and studies of religion that approach it from a secular angle. Politically, I lean left-libertarian. Complete agreement with my political views is neither necessary nor desirable- though I'd hope we'd be able to discuss such matters without taking it personally.
When I'm not living the life of the mind, I unwind with games of all types. Yes, dear reader, I am unrepentant geek- board games, video games, card games, role playing games all interest me. Though, for the same reasons, I like watching sports as well- soccer and college football especially. All of them are interesting intellectual challenges with a clear winner and loser, and have the interplay of strategem and counter that makes getting in the heads of the various players interesting.
Face pictures are available on request.
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