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To be collared and cuffed, awaiting orders or bound and gagged ready for a punishment, the love the joys, submitting to anothers will is the most arousing act. I love my submissiveness/slavery and yearn to be used. Master I yearn for you always. slave kayla

Greetings..this one will be explaining while doing a serve… just remember always… no matter what you do, a slave shows exquisite beauty and absolute obedience to her Master and the Free.   Always try to make your words flow along with the serve.  Remember when you type out a serve or dance, picture the movements in your mind and type them out.  Your Master or the one you are serving has only your words to see, so use descriptions to paint a picture of what you’re doing.
As you study the ways of a kajira and learn the different styles you will see that different areas of Gor uses different types of names for the Free and slaves alike, and also different ways to serve.  This paper will be for the Southern Gor which is what many chats and realms go into.
In serving paga you first need to know a little about what you are doing.  There is a main paga served called Paga- SaTarna, or paga for short.  Translation means “Pleasure of the Life-Daughter.”  It is a fermented brew from the SaTarna grain.  There is a second one called Sul Paga that is made from the sul vegetable.  This one is usually stronger than the regular paga and served usually in lower castes.
There are three main vessels that paga is served in though for the South the Tankard and footed bowl are the popular ones.  In the North, the horn and footed bowl is.  Paga can be served at room temperature, chilled, or heated.  The heated paga goes in the footed bowl.  This paper will do room temperature.
Please remember at the start of any serve, unless the Master tells you He wants something, the girl first asks or begs the Master to serve Him.  For guest Masters and even your own Master, you ask or beg to approach the Master to offer serve or service.
Please remember to always use your own words in giving a serve.  The words in this serve are for teaching and helping you to be a better slave for your Master and someday a kajira.  To use another person’s words is like they are serving and not yourself.  Your emotions and feelings flow in your words.  This serve will mainly be for white silks, please remember as you learn and grow, to add more of yourself and sensual expressions of in your serves.
Quietly she drifts to her knees as creamy smooth thighs press together,  her firm hips resting on her heels as back arches straight, palms resting on her thighs as dark brown eyes lower towards Master’s boots whispering softly, ~may this one approach Master and offer serve.~   “White silks use a tower position.  When yellow or red you use a nadu position.  You don’t move or speak until the Master answers you.  Please remember, once you start a serve, your every thought is on the Master and the serve, no matter who else comes in the room or tries to talk to you, you do not speak to anyone during the serve.  Every word from your mouth should be for the Master and the serve alone as He deserves your undivided attention.  After He says to approach then you rise gracefully and move to Master’s boots.”  She rises gracefully then approaches the handsome Master, drifting to her knees before His boots as dark glowing eyes lower in submission to Master whispering softly, ~may girl be of service to Master this day~.      Aye Paga
Aye Master, as she moves back three paces in respect to Master then rising she turns towards the serving area.  “Remember in every serve to ask the Master to serve Him then show the respect due by moving back three paces from the Master.”
Moving gracefully she glides towards the servery as heart beats with happiness to be able to serve the mighty Master. Her fingers brush along the shelves as she searches for just the right vessel, reaching high as they wrap around a Silver tankard with a golden kajira dancing on the side.  “On the vessel, be descriptive yet change it with every serve.”  Carefully she inspects the vessel for any imperfections that might harm the strong Master, seeing none she runs the rim along the silky smoothness of her neck then down along her arms.    “Please remember that this part also changes according to who you serve and what color silks you wear”.  A smile crosses her lips seeing the tankard is smooth and safe or the Master’s tender lips.  Using a clean rep cloth she polishes the tankard till it shines.  “The sentence here has endless possibilities on how it may shine.  Please also note that you never stop a serve in mid sentence, if you run out of room then shorten or reword it to make a full sentence.”
Caressing the vessel close to her heart she sways over to the beverage shelf, finding a fresh new bota of paga.  Bringing the bota to moist, crimson, lips she pulls the cork out with her teeth, pouring the rich brew into the tankard.  The aroma fills the air with its intoxicating scent.  Filling the tankard to the rim then placing the cork back on the bota to keep it fresh and safe.  Caressing the vessel to her heart she twirls towards the room and the mighty Master.  Gracefully she sways around furs as her heart beats faster, drifting to her knees as warm glowing eyes lower towards Master’s boots whispering softly, ~may this one approach Master and serve~.  “The reason you stop before going to Master’s boots and asking to approach is because the Master may be busy and may not wish you to approach at that time.  The Master may be talking to another or even having fun with another slave, so you stop before moving to His boots and ask permission to serve Him”
Rising softly as she moves towards Master “____”, melting to her knees at His boots as dark glowing eyes lower.  Slowly she moves the vessel across the tender curves, then whispering softly, ~would Master wish the paga proofed~.  “The slave, depending on the Master and household, asks the Master if she may proof the beverage before serving.  If a white silk, then many times the beverage would proofed to make sure it is safe and good for the Master.  Visiting Masters may wish to have Theirs proofed as well.”    The Master say “aye girl”.
With a glitter in her eyes whispering tenderly, ~aye Master~ then pours a few drops of the precious brew into her palm.  Holding her palm over parted lips as the paga trickles in her mouth.  Feeling the warmth of the brew as she savors the flavor making sure it is safe and pure.  “a slave never puts her lips to the rim of the Master’s vessel as to some that is punishable by severe beating or death, as the slave is putting herself in the same place as the Master in drinking.  This rule changes in Northern Gor as some of the Masters share the brew with a bondmaid slave on Their laps.”
A warm smile crosses her lips seeing the brew is safe for Master “___”, then raising it high she says a silent prayer of thanks to the Three Moons of Gor then lowers her eyes whispering softly, ~this one brings Master “____” the paga as she prays it is
refreshing and pleasing as it may quench Master’s thirst~.   Dark flowing tresses swirl around Master’s boots as she holds the vessel high listening to Master’s word.
“The slave stays there and listens till after the Master takes the vessel.  Sometimes a Master may wait before taking it as He may be speaking, or just wishes to see if the girl is learning her true place as a slave.”
“After the Master takes the vessel you wait and listen.  Sometimes you add sensual or sincere words of thought as your listening.  After the Master approves of His drink then ask if He wishes further service of you.”  Example:  her heart is filled with warmth as she is honored to serve Master, whispering softly, may girl be of further service to Master~.  According to your silks and most important, according to your Master, is how you can be of further service.  This could be just to kneel at His boots, or warm His feet.  The main reason to ask this is because you need to be released from His service before you greet anyone that enters the room or serve anyone else.  Many times the Master may release you to greet so you won’t need to offer further service.  Please remember this is only a teaching serve and that when you serve, express your feelings and emotions in the words.  If you are writing a serve for the first time then read over it aloud several times before giving to your Master.  You will discover changes you need to make in it each time you read it.  Always strive to be the best slave possible for your Master.

“a slave is to always show exquisite beauty, and absolute obedience.”

kayla