I'm disappointed.  I had arranged a meeting with a submissive I thought sincere and down to earth.  He was a no-call, no-show. Why are people inclined to play games? I don't care to be strung along. I will be more wary in the future.

At this time I am no longer actively looking.  There are a few people I'm getting to know, and I'm happy with that circumstance.

I have been asked a lot lately what I seek.  I seek a servant who will always look out for my best interests.  One who believes in service. Pain or pleasure is a reward meted out for service, not an end in itself.  I do not 'scene'  I seek an actual relationship.